hey there
i am a 20 guy,who tried alot to find some friends from the net,and i was sucsfull,but just to find them,i couldn'tkeep none of them,most of the ones that i found at first mentioned that they love to be one of my friends,but no one continue.why?
if you have some expreince of something like this,
plz let me know
thanks
farhad
2006-10-22 18:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by farhad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because it is an internet friendship and when they get off the computer they go to school or work where they can actually talk and go out with people who really know them, maybe you are pushing the friendship too much, and it is scaring them. don't talk with them everyday even my very good friends I can go weeks without talking to them, that does not make them any less of a friend. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 18:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are several reasons why you might be running into this problem.
1 there are a lot of people that take advantage of the net and use it only to get women to have sex with them in one way or another. So a women has to be careful when they meet people on the net.
2 maybe they do not feel that you talk to them enough to get to know you so in that case they do not feel comfort6able with you.
3 it is so easy for people to lie on the net and that makes it hard to trusdt people on the net.
I think that if you are willing to be patient and take the time to get to know someone that you just might meet someone on the net but it is not something that is easy and it might take time .. Good luck
2006-10-23 01:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you bet. out of say 100 people you talk maybe 10 will share the same interests like you. out of those, maybe one will be actually available and open to a friendship. oh well, keep trying and having fun in your life.
2006-10-23 01:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should look to the internet to meet people, it is a lot easier to do face to face. Good Luck
2006-10-23 01:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey farhad,
As a girl it used to be the same for me . but now i know if u r looking 4 the wrong thing u will get the wrong guy.just dont be desperate to find one.set wat u think is the right thing and stay calm...then bingo!....you'll hav the one! good luck dear!
2006-10-23 01:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by sepehrpaak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can happen! Each person may have a different reason!
2006-10-23 01:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly because of your poor English skills...
2006-10-23 01:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you thought about striking the conversatons up first? maybe you're too serious or too smart or too talkative?
It could be anything!
2006-10-23 01:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're either boring or creepy. mabye both. i cant be sure. work on those things. and dont be so needy.
2006-10-23 01:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by shinglezach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋