Ive met my girl 3 months ago and every week I take her out and we see a movie or do crazy stuff, we hang out at cafes go walking around the french quarter, we eat at restaurants, we skateboard, run in peoples yards at night lol. I adore this girl alot. Every time I try to get close she seems to keep to herself. But every time I back off and stop calling her, she wants to hang out. She just told me yesterday that she was moving to Florida in 3 weeks with her sister but she will be back to visit. Should I give up hope? Does she feel anything for me?
2006-10-22 18:38:37 · 12 answers · asked by mobius_l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please understand that she wants to have something with you and she likes you the way that you like her but she is trying not to hurt you by keeping you off. Why start something when you aren't sure if you are able to finish it.Its great to find your soulmate beause i wish i were in your shoes right now to find that person.Hold on don't give up because not many people as myself has the opportunity to say that we have honestly have that experience.Make her see that you are the one for her and that things could work out even if you have to migrate with her. This could be the happy ending which opens the happy beginning for you.Something beautiful... Go get it boy lol...
2006-10-22 19:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female, and I have done the exact same thing your girl is doing, and I always did it because even though I didnt really like the guy, he was better than being alone. For your sake, you need to cut the ties before you get to attached, it will never work because she will leave you as soon as she finds someone better.
Sorry, and good luck
2006-10-23 01:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl is worth fighting for then never give up hope. You're lucky, you guys sound like you have a lot of fun together. Hold on to that, don't get all wierd on her. Talk to her about it and listen to what she says
2006-10-23 01:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your soulmate then there should be two way process between you and she.If she is moving w/ her sister far from you, then find means coming to her place or sometimes she to your place...Two soulmates are consoling each other ....Being far from each other is a test if you are really soulmates.
2006-10-23 01:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your soul mate, she would feel the same way about you. Just talk to her...that's the only way you are going to find out for sure! Good luck!
2006-10-23 01:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol if you dont think she feels the same and either does she then thats not your soulmate dude. soulmates are 2 people that share the same feelings for eachother and stick with eachother for the rest of their lives
2006-10-23 01:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how does she want to handle the relationship after she moves away.
The move could be why she's holding back....she knows it's going to end soon.
If she's your soul-mate you should find it easy to talk to her about anything.
2006-10-23 01:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, it doesn't sound good, but i gotta tell you, it's hard for someone to be your soul mate if they don't feel like YOU are THEIR soul mate too, you know what i mean? just let it be. keep in touch. see how things go. if it's meant to be, she'll come around. if not, move on and find your REAL soul mate.
2006-10-23 01:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so..this is the best time my boy to ask what ur heart asks you to. why to remain in a question and repent? go and ask her, and let the answer be from her decision. try to accept truth.
and am sure, she will accept you. maybe she wanted you to come forward.
all the best!
2006-10-23 01:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is, play your part and stop worrying about something you dont have power to control.Infact the biggest obstacle is you right now,will you wait for her or you're going to pick another one immediately after she leaves!
2006-10-23 01:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋