2006-10-22 18:52:54 · 17 answers · asked by shawnee f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't. you just have to trust him
2006-10-22 18:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't. there is no sure recipe for finding it out. There are a few signs that he is cheating, if he has non of the following....well then relax: sudden and apparently for no reason change of attitude, he spends less time with you, when you call more often then not, he is brief , in a hurry, nervous if he answers at all,etc.
Logical thoughts and behavior analysis are your best friend. If he hasn't shown any of the above put your mind at ease otherwise you'll just be waiting for him to cheat and ruin a perfectly healthy relationship
Best of Luck
2006-10-23 02:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Scooby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question speaks volumes. Had you asked, "how do i know my bf IS cheating on me" would imply you still trusted him and were looking for answers to reinforce that trust. But you asked the other way, meaning you are looking for confirmation of your suspiscions. The trust is already gone and I think that no matter what anyone here says, you will never be completely swayed back to him.
2006-10-23 01:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when he disappears for long term of time with out any reason, he doesnt answer your phone calls when he is out and about he makes lame excuses like I did not hear my cell cuz it was in the car the battery died (for the 3rd time this week) or so on and so forth u kno whe is up to no good.
or She.
2006-10-23 01:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him u will trust him and u will be able to tell if he is cheating on u by the way that he acts towards u
2006-10-23 02:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely if you think he is cheating you than most likely he is . He is obviously giving you reason to think he is cheating
2006-10-23 01:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt answer phone, unexplained marks on neck and chest, he seems like hes in another planet when hes with you or like he isnt there at all, hell say something about a girl that will make him feel better almost like hes confessing or something like "i hanged out with my freind who i hadnt seen in years" so on
2006-10-23 01:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan hernandez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to him and remember everything he says. liars always trip over their stories. this can take a while so be patient. to help try reading a book on body language. but for starters try this if he cant meet your eyes and hold it he is lying. if he smiles too much while explaining he is lying. if he stumbles over his words he is lying. and check his phone, phone bill, pockets and his underwear for stains.
2006-10-23 02:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have asked this question, you obviously think there is something going on with him. He must have done something to make you distrust him.
O'hock
2006-10-23 01:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him having sex with another girl thats not you, then you know he is cheating on you.
2006-10-23 03:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess when he doesnt return your call for a long time, or he is always occupied from 7pm-11pm everyday because he is prolly talking to another gal or even outside with them
2006-10-23 02:20:05 · answer #11 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋