I met her in another city. She was smiling at me. Then we had a conversation. We took a bus across the bridge over the bay. We went to a Motel room. But, I was waiting for her by the pool. She came out in her bathing suit and walked towards me smiling.Then she sat beside me and I put my arm around her. I wrote this letter to her. About this dream. Should I send it to her house ? The only problem is there are 10 entries with her last name in the telephone book and I don't know which one is hers.
2006-10-22 19:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by sandwreckoner 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Due to your advices. I am convinved that you people are more interested or worried in not sounding weird or strange to others then actually not being creepy or strange. I do not try to sugarcoat anything I feel,think,percieve or experience. Just so that I can fit in with the crowd of politically correct cowards. Personally,I think writing a letter is a good thing.Because, it doesn't put anyone on the spot. Let's say I phoned someone out of the blue. Let's say it was one of you. Would you want to be contacted unexpectedly ? Maybe, you just got out of the shower or are doing the laundry. Ever think of that ? With the invetion of the letter. You do not have to answer to any questions immidiately. You can reflect etc.
2006-10-23 19:48:22 · update #1
Mr.Flabberga..., I am not worried about sounding obssesive. Unlike you. Because, I am not being obsessive. Writing 1 to 2 notes or letters is not the same as writing 100-200. What's wrong with writing love letters ? You all make it sound like hate mail. As for you opinion that dreams have nothing to do with destiny. Consider the dreams fo various people throughout history. Some more known than others. Who have had solutions come to them in dreams. The most verified are the American inventors; Singer,who had a dream to his problem of making his sewing machine work. Then there is Mactazuma,the Aztec emperor. Who had become withdrawn and depressed and felt that the empire was coming to an end. Maybe he had some bad dreams too. He saw Haley's comet and a few weeks later the Conquistadors showed up. The Empire crumbled. Hitler had supposedly anticipated a direct hit on his crew in a trench in World War 1.He warned them. They ignored him.He jumped away and sure enough it fell. It was destiny
2006-10-23 20:11:38 · update #2
NO. Do not send the letter. Ask yourself when was the lasy time you had contact with this woman. Theb think about the fact that you are looking her up in the phone book to send her a random letter about how you had a dream about her. It comes off as creepy. Dreams can take many different forms and meanings and sometimes an old memory will play into it.
2006-10-22 19:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by feelgood9000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, don’t send it because it would sound obsessive and since you guys haven't talked in a while it would be more awkward since dreams are not some divine instances that tells you what to do, they are more of a way your brain blows off steam, the images that are produce are a result of harping or daily occurrence, not because it's destined to be. there is no such thing as destiny or fate because there is always another option to the situation.
2006-10-22 19:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by Flabbergasted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep this dream to myself. She may think you are crazy. Besides with ten entries are you going to send these to 10 houses? too much work...look for her on myspace or something.
2006-10-22 19:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by volcomrocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to learn her first name if you are going to take her to a hotel...I don't know. Call me old fashioned.
2006-10-22 19:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if she is in a relationship? You should try calling her first, and your dream is weird.
2006-10-22 19:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋