My girlfriend and I live together (both 27). She has always been very loud during lovemaking (screaming). Yes I do enjoy it and i'm happy she enjoys it. We live rather close to another house and recently our new neighbor (he's 29) came over and talked to me. (his wife made him come over). Well after some akwardness he finally told me that his wife isn't happy because they have kids in the house and they hear us. I totally understand his point and I have tried to tell my gf about this. She did manage to quiet down just a tad (i had to put my hand over her mouth once) but I don't think it's enough. She seems kind of put off that I have had to tell her to be a bit more quiet, and it's affecting our love life a bit. She tells me that she just can't help it that that is the way she is. Really I want to know if she is just saying this .. does anyone know why she just can't be a bit more quiet? should i move? Like i said it drives me wild but it is becoming a problem.
2006-10-22 19:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by travis R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fail to understand how the neighbors can hear if you have the doors and windows closed. They are in a whole different house;.
She must wail like a wounded animal.
Anyway, your lady is probably one who can't be quiet. I have heard of such people. The sensations they have just spill over and they have to release it by verbalising.
You could try soundproofing your bedroom by hanging thick curtains if that isn't enough you may have to resort to a one inch layer of insulation.
It is nice that you don't want to offend the neighbors, but they shouldn't be standing out on the porch with their hands up to their ears listening.
2006-10-22 20:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by FAT CAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing it somewhere else in the house. Also, draping fabric over the walls in the bedroom can have a significant noise dampening effect, as well as making the room look cozier and really neat.
That might help.
2006-10-22 19:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by firewater_tears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying. But i also understand her point. She obviously enjoys love-making sessions with you and you should be very happy. I would say yes, move out or buy wall insulation so that your neighbours won't hear her ecstasy screams.
2006-10-22 19:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii'm sure your girl friend is a lovely person, but to me i feel she is being a little selfish and dis respectful, of course she should have the right to do what she pleases during sex but if the neighbours can her, i think thqat is just a little bit much.
Isn't she embarrassed they hear her?
I think that you need to get it through to her that she needs to be a little quieter, if you move thats is just letting it happen...
What happens when you have kids ????........
2006-10-22 19:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by jasesez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your co*ck is so big that the energy produced during its friction on her sugarclam walls is transformed into sound energy and shoots out of her gapin', gaspin' mouth????
2006-10-22 19:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aldo J is right
I totally agree with ya dude!
Turn on the music!!!
Moving will just be unnecesary!
Just think about it!!!
2006-10-22 19:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A screamer! Just take her to the backcountry and let her call the wild..
2006-10-22 19:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had this problem i really do
turn up some music or the tv and dont try to chage ANYTHING..
2006-10-22 19:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of your business.
2006-10-22 19:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE where she can scream
2006-10-22 19:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋