Well ... I had told you guys that I really need to tell my boyfriend im going to be 17 in a month... he actually thinks im 17 already. I know its tremendously stupid but I had lied to him 2 years ago when i met him and when we started talking again about 3 months ago i just couldnt bring myself to tell him i had lied. I really want to tell him and come clean cuz I feel really bad. Im almost sure he'll forgive me but i just dont know how to tell him... please...any help out there?
2006-10-22 19:45:48 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. hes just 18 ;)
2006-10-22 19:51:46 · update #1
He could get into some serious trouble if he is older than you.
Tell him the truth as soon as possible and deal with the results. Don't lie about your age in the future.
2006-10-22 19:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him!!!Simple answer (and one that you already know) but very hard to do!!
As u probably found out by now, lying in a relationship will lead only to tensions and since you cant just blurt out whats really troubling you, you will show it out in other ways which will leave him feeling confused and hurt.
Just tell him and though you may have a fight , it will just be water under the bridge a couple of days later and from personal experience I can say that things will only get better.
Whatever doesnt break you will only make you stronger!!
Good luck!!!
2006-10-23 02:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Melvin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter. Things communicated in a letter have more importance to us somehow than things we just blurt out. And he will see it as a "different" way of talking and know that "something is up." (He'll also be a little afraid you might be breaking up with him, so your confession will be a relief.)
Tell him what you told us. That you made a stupid mistake when you were 15 and you respect him too much to continue and that it's been torturing you. That it's hard to be honest now, but your relationship is worth honesty.
Good luck.
2006-10-23 02:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... your first mistake was lieing. and like the first answer, depending on how olad he is to you, Your parents will defiantely object to you seeing him. Now hopefully you haven't gone into having sexual realtions cause then your parents can step in and and get the locla authorties involved with a rape charge against you new fella for being under age. Keep in kind that each state has it's own age limits to having sex with adults.
Better for you to tell him them truth now before you realtinoship gets into sexaul realtions and if you've already had sexaul realtions whit him you better be using potection and on some kind of birth control.
2006-10-23 02:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by jcecil2930 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seemed like things are going well with you 2 so I suggest you come up to him and just tell him the truth
2006-10-23 02:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him asap because you can get him into serious trouble if you don't. If you care about the guy you need to be 100% honest with him no matter what the consequences.
2006-10-23 03:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by lost in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats wat happen to me but my mom told him and yeah you should ask him do you love me alot that what im ganna say is going to be a shock but i really need to tell you something i have been keeping from you and tell him to say how he rally feels and most guys dont lie to us in less they are dogs so after he says than say your part there it all done good luck
2006-10-23 02:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by letty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like he already knows you are going to be 17. If he says that "I thought you told me you were already 17", just act like he's the crazy one and act like you will get mad at him for not remembering your correct birthday. lol
2006-10-23 02:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just call him and tell him you want see to see him tonight.after that then you have to make sure that you have plan a perfect dinner or perfect plan, then you will tell him the truth no matter what happen that night.i know he will forgive after you have that nice plan for him.
2006-10-23 02:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how wooped you got him...
number 1 you lied to him so when he lies back to you (he probably already has) make sure you dont get mad. Best way to do it is just to tell him flat out and do it when your lookin good.
2006-10-23 02:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋