Me and my boyfriend make love more or less everytime he comes round or i go to his, but couple days ago i didnt feel like it and now he wont stop moaning about it.
2006-10-22 23:48:43 · 29 answers · asked by G F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're nothing more than a booty call. Have some self respect for yourself and your body-----Your boyfriend is used to getting what he wants when he wants it.....SEX shouldn't be the center of your relationship----and obviously it is....
IMMATURity----and selfishness are the basis of your relationship the sooner you wake up and realize this the quicker you'll be rid of the booty calling caller!
2006-10-22 23:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychology never takes a vacation.
Women need to feel love, in order to have sex.
Men need to have sex, in order to feel love.
Why, you ask? Because that is the result of the hormonal influence on the two genders. It makes the male persue and impregnate more females.
A female can gestate once per cycle, or year...
A male can impregnate many females...
Anyway, since mankind imposed some social restrictions on the
above situation, that did not modify the underlying chemical forces that are at work to cause the natural procreation process!
But, a proper stance is to let the male know that whiming is NOT an approved form of foreplay. It turns the female off more often than not.
So, your boyfriend needs to become more aware that you desire some recognition and some general wellbeing feelings from him, instead of a total subjugation to his needs. He is NOT being insincere, he is simply acting on the hormones and wanting the rewards, before he has earned them.
Hope he matures quickly and well, before you seek a more mature male!
2006-10-23 00:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the answer to this
Its because whereas the thought that a man wants to have a sex with a woman gives her the emotional satisafaction she needs (in terms of the man wants her and the actual physical part is not as important) a man needs to have sex to get that same satisfaction, otherwise he may become sad and withdrawn and moany and feel that she does not want him and he does not feel emotionally nor pysically fulfilled.
This is a difference between the sexes in their emotional attitude to the pyhsical side of a relationship.
2006-10-23 01:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an ego thing with us I think. It's one thing been knocked back in a club by a stranger, but when the woman you love says no it hurts. I was like your boyfriend once, but I now realise that women get tired too & ye don't always feel up for it! Give him time & he'll get over it!
2006-10-22 23:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men want sex all the time and get turned on a lot easier than woman. Men need to relieve themselves otherwise they'll explode!
2006-10-23 00:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by Dom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thinks all men's are like its , as my bf is , but if he's don't want to have sex and i do them i have to go with out , but i was abit like you ,were i did not fill like it for a couple days , hes just got in to a right ****, just put its down to a man things ,
2006-10-23 03:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by tauntonsomersetblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you dont have sex we think that you dont like us anymore and wonder if you are going off us and are having sex with someone else!!
2006-10-22 23:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nature has built him such he arouse for sex fast and get upset when we do not want sex at his will but sometimes we also fiercely arouse for sex and he cooperates. 'Arousing of sex' principle governs men and women.
2006-10-22 23:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos that means he has to walk all the way to the bathroom for a ham shank!
2006-10-22 23:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by kate_souter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because everything moved up to his brain. Is like sperm brain damage, but is only temporally. I hope he get sick to understand in the future his anger.
2006-10-22 23:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋