Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

hi, i am a 27 yr old married man from past few months.My wife is 24 yrs old.I am very lucky to get her as my wife.She is a nice girl and we respect eachother a lot.i love her a lot and i know that she too loves me.But my problem is she is too shy in bed and does not co-operate me to fulfill my sexual desires.She tries to hide herself too much when i kiss her and i find her shivering when i hug her and try to make love to her . She does not complain or tells anything about her problem . I have a feeling that she is too shy and scared to discuss about that.but somehow i want her to make her feel happy and comfortable with me in bed.I am really worried about how can i make her ready so that i can enter her.I am sure that she do not have any bad sexual experiance before our marriage . Pls reply me with decent answers and help me to overcome her problem

2006-10-22 22:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have a secluded office where I can lock the door and pull down the blinds......

2006-10-22 22:08:40 · 18 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 22:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

imet the love of my life while on hoildays, we realy fell 4 each other we spent every day with each other, now he is gone home and iam still on hoildays 4 another 3months but we swore that we will c each other again even tho he lives in adifferent country than me but ihave aproblem iam pregrant,should itell him or just leave him 2live his life ihave already ruined mine, ilike him 2much 2 do the same 2him we dont no each other that well 2 have achild 2gether or should itell him. he is 22 iam 19

2006-10-22 22:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by cruise girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, well i was in a great relationship for two years with the girl of my dreams i'm 23 she is 22, about a month ago we got into a really bad fight and she decided that she wanted a break from the whole thing and needed some space I messed up and didnt give it to her and didnt respect what she asked, and about two to three weeks ago we met up and stuff happened, and she said she was still confused and all. last week we talked and she said she was considering getting back together untill one of my friends talked to her and was talking to him about everything and she was really mad and upset that i shared with him that we had sex and now she wants absolutely nothing to do with me and she is saying that it's over because i shouldnt have told him we had sex and i didnt. i know nothing is going on withher or anybody else and she says she still really loves me and that if we were meant to be it will happen just not now!!?? please help me i love her so much and we were so perfect together

2006-10-22 22:06:17 · 11 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See this girl agreed to go to a movie with me, but like she dosent know I like her, what kind of flirting can I do with her that will attract her towards me but not over do it. GIRLS ONLY PLEASE!

2006-10-22 22:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Mercyfull 2 in Singles & Dating

All my husband does when he is home is play his damn Xbox. I might add that he plays Xbox Live so he is paying attention to other people and talking to them. It really pisses me off because he spends no time with me or his daughter. Plus I get no conversation from him. Take today for instance. It is Sunday and he played his Xbox for 9 hours with about a 30 minute break inbetween. Im tired of it and I just want to throw it out and then stomp it to death. How can I get him to want to go out and do things or atleast pay attention to us? It makes me feel inferior and lonely. I also might add that I try to get him to get off of it all of the time by asking him to spend time with us but he says its boring. Well its boring for me to have to watch a video game for 9 straight hours too! Thanks for your suggestions in advance.

2006-10-22 22:05:23 · 14 answers · asked by BJTD 2 in Family

but she's a really good mate of mine and she has a boyfriend

2006-10-22 22:05:14 · 18 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

At University theres this girl im friends with and also like, who seems to look in my direction or at me a lot.

I look at her a lot aswell.

When either of us catch eyes we both look away.

Thing is she has a boyfriend, but weve had the attraction/flirting between us for 8 months

Do you think she keeps looking at me cos she is interested, or just to see if im looking at her or both.?

If i notice someone looking at me that i dont find attractive i do my best not to look, as that eye catch can give wrong impression.

we must have caught eyes over 15 times today, and i reacon i saw her looking in my direction at least another 10.

2006-10-22 22:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend goes to the casino to try to win money to help us pay for bills now we are so much indedt they took my car it got reepo cause he always have to go to the casino to win money to pay on on I try my best to keep him out of ther if I don't go he will get mad if we go and he lose money I will get yelled at its had not to go to the casino and not for me to play... I need help what should I do my life is done

2006-10-22 21:59:11 · 20 answers · asked by emily_noll2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i ended my 6 year relationship with my boyfriend 3 months ago. he was violent and controlling towards to me and i found it very difficult to end the relationship but i knew that i had too. im in the process of having him released from our joint mortgage as he hasnt been paying his share of the mortgage. Im expecting him to be really difficult in consenting to this. He no longer lives at the property anymore.Anyway, he is constantly phoning me and leaving messages. he has even got his whole family phoning me and leaving messages!ive told him that i have nothing more to say to him and have since been ignoring all these calls and messages. what can i do to get him and his family to leave me alone?is this harassment?

2006-10-22 21:55:15 · 35 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I alone?
Mi heart needs to be sown.
A boyfriend has not come,
Mi knight in shinying armor will not come.
I feel like crying,
But mi brother is spying.
I need comfort and support,
I have not been caught.
Mi friends, they all have loved,
So why haven't I?

2006-10-22 21:53:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where I work, there are some Asians (mostly Chinese). I noticed there are two types. One type is short and the other type is really tall.

For instance, there is this one Chinese lady who is the tallest lady there. They had to put two bricks on each leg of her desk for it to be high enough for her.

The tall ones usually have large frames but are very slim and have very light skin. Are they from different regions of China?

2006-10-22 21:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by rectar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

forgiving someone... was it worth it?

2006-10-22 21:52:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I understand men are raped as well.

But woman always seem to be the victims. I don't understand like if someone trys to rape you, kick him do something don't give up. Woman should start taking some Karate classes or something. Because it's getting sad hearing this storys, where woman in other country not in just the USA are being abused.

2006-10-22 21:51:47 · 20 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

do u ladies who are in a relationship actually like swallowing ? you know what i mean, doesn't it seem icky to you? don't you think its messy? i kinda think it is.

lets leave the guys out at the moment :>

2006-10-22 21:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend loves me very much and i love him more, problem is "he don't trust me". how can you love the person if you don't trust each other right? he always think that i'm still dating other guys, but i'm not, i'm a one man woman.... i hate when he says "are you with another guy?"...... dah?

2006-10-22 21:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by pisces09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

"The proportion of young people [in the UK] who are sexually active before the age of consent [16 years old] has risen from less than one percent to 25 percent," Reuters News Agency, today.

If you think this is a problem, what caused it?

2006-10-22 21:50:49 · 17 answers · asked by Barks-at-Parrots 4 in Singles & Dating

My cousin who's a guy says only girls should do the laundry. Today my mum forced him to do the laundry and he really started complaining, saying only girls are supposed to it.
Urgh!

2006-10-22 21:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by Kendra 3 in Family

My friends asked me if I would go out with this guy today. I don't know if it was a joke coz I used to like him. But he had a straight face and wasn't refuseing it at all. But I know he used to go with mi mate who likes another guy/.

2006-10-22 21:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she attacks when i walk in a room and shes trying to sleep, i wouldnt want to give her away but i find it ard to love her when she is like this little monster.

2006-10-22 21:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by Dionne M 1 in Family

what do u do when u lost a postive situation?
what do u do when u lost a great potential for having a meaningful relatioship, just awesome, and now its not possible anymore... what do u do to make urself happy and whole and feel better? what do u do next???

2006-10-22 21:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my cousins & i grew up together and we're very close.we're ol girls& r now in hi skul & college.reese,d oldest, doesnt want us to have bfs yet since we have to finish our studies.i usually caught sky & sheryl(reese's young sibs)in d malls&clubs w/ guys. d 2 confessed to me that those guys r their bfs & told me not to tel any1 especially reese bcoz they're scared that reese will b mad @ them. i promised & kept my mouth shut.
lat month,i saw a pic of sheryl making out w/ a guy in her phone camera.it didnt bother me @ 1st until our friends told me that they found a sex video of sheryl & d guy in sheryl's phone!
and just yesterday sheryl & i had a serious talk & she confessed to me that d guy had just forced her 2 have sex w/ him.but what surprised me most is that sheryl had boke up w/ d guy last yr & now had a new bf!& she & her ex r meeting today to "talk."
i wanted reese or any1 else in the family 2 know about this but i think sheryl should do d talking...
what should i do?help?

2006-10-22 21:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3 in Family

what do u do when u lost a postive situation?
what do u do when u lost a great potential for having a meaningful relatioship, just awesome, and now its not possible anymore... what do u do to make urself happy and whole and feel better? what do u do next???

2006-10-22 21:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

(i.e. on the back, towel,ect) Does it feel differant to the guy?

2006-10-22 21:43:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My car just got reepoed I blame my boyfrined for it he all says we will pay the payment I got 4 monthes behind he all ways have to go to the casino what should I do

2006-10-22 21:43:25 · 13 answers · asked by emily_noll2006 1 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when u lost a great potential for having a meaningful relatioship, just awesome, and now its not possible anymore... what do u do to make urself happy and whole and feel better? what do u do next???

2006-10-22 21:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple of days ago my sister in law asked me to watch her son from 8:30-3:30 4 days a week i agreed to it how much do you think i should charge her what would be reasonable? Paying me some sort of fee didn't come into our discussion i think she thinks i'll do it for free? How do i bring up this topic and whats a good price to charge her for watching him. i'm not dumb but haven't ever charged someone for babysitting so i'm clueless as to how much. Any advice or input is much appreciated

2006-10-22 21:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Help me please...My bf dump me for another gerl. We are sexually active. We almost have it 4 times a week. Since we are not together anymore, Im not getting of that special attention.

I had a cute neighbour, a male friends who I can have sex with. But I want to have it in a fun way. How can I approach them. Please help me.

2006-10-22 21:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by Isabelle F 1 in Singles & Dating

A chick and I go to the same highschool but i cant for the life of me get us pass the occasional, hi how u doing, bb game, small talk in class, or somthing like that i am wanting somthing bigger then that.:( Ty for help

2006-10-22 21:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating