but she's a really good mate of mine and she has a boyfriend
2006-10-22 22:05:14 · 18 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that you should leave it, as you say you are good friends and if you do tell her she may never want to speak to you again. Friends like you are hard to find. I think that she would probably find it also very akward to be with you if you did. I had a friend (male) who told me he liked me when I was single and going through a rough stage of my life and although I was single I used to find his mannerisms with me were very creepy. In the end I told him (drunk one night) that I didn't fancy him, I would never fancy him and to get over it. After that we drifted apart.
2006-10-22 22:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Laracroft81 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has a boyfriend, do not tell her as it may upset your friendship. You should try making a new set of seperate friends and you might meet someone else. It is hard when you have feelings for friends, but you could end up losing her altogether by telling her when she is in a relationship already. If it does not work out with her boyfriend then you could wait a little bit and then tell her how you feel. But be prepared she might not feel the same way and you could end up losing the friendship aswell.
2006-10-22 22:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by L15a c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have made it pretty clear that she already has a boyfriend and that she is a good friend of yours. I would suggest that you confront her about your feelings but make it clear that you would only like to let her know about the way you feel towards her adn if she does have feelings for you, she will tell you about it. It is not wrong having feelings for someone but it is wrong if you are the cause of a heartache and in this case her boyfriend's heart. Choose the right time and place to voice out your feelings. Good Luck!
2006-10-22 22:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by annaliza_257 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such love triangles are common. if she is a good friend of yours, she must be sharing with you her dreams and relationship with her boy friend. If you know her boyfriend also, you can very well understand whether you should sacrifice your love or not? If you really love her, your happiness will be in her happiness. so decide. don't think that proposing is a risk of friendship. just think for the best and be prepared for a heart break. all the best.
2006-10-22 22:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by baba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. you do not have truly some lady acquaintances, do you? believe me. i comprehend this now to not be love. you in basic terms sense humorous b/c shes the in difficulty-free words lady you spend truly some time with. you comprehend plenty about her and also you're comfortable consisting of her. Its in basic terms that you spot her accessible you've faith you've a probability. at the same time as certainly, you statistically have a lot less of a probability than a stranger b/c she is familiar with plenty about you. You lose the ease to positioned across your self attractively. So by technique of that concept, you're at a draw back. notwithstanding, you basic hearted-ness is impressive. yet its in difficulty-free words impressive to strangers, no longer for a relationship. you're her shoulder to cry on. If she replaced into in touch in you, it would want to have handed off. Or in case you've been extra of a guy, it would want to have handed off. yet regrettably, this isn't the problem. Why can't you imagine of it as "no longer a huge deal"? Are you the variety of guy who can get any woman he needs with who he's or are you the variety of guy who needs the international to be like the awl advertisements? **** it. this isn't a huge deal. Ask her or no longer, it doesn't count number. you're both adults. this isn't severe college. My suggestion: end staring at reruns of the OC to sparkling up your issues and do in basic terms it. you actually do not opt to be 40 and seem decrease back, questioning "what if".
2016-12-05 03:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iv been in your position befor....and i know how you feel
Its hard to give the best answer cause no one knows the exact extent of your situation.but il tell you what i think and i hope it helps.Tell her
Dont be aggressive, just tell her in a nice way.Get her alone and tell her that you care for her as more then a friend
Say you just wanted her to know cause its been on your mind..anything more aggressive will shouck her big time..Say you will always be a friend but will always be willing to take the next step if she chooses
When times get hard and ther relationship gose wrong just be there for her
With time things will change
I rushed it told her to leave har bf for me and lost contact with her..she broke up with him that same year
it mght not work but thats my advice goodluck
Wish you all the best
2006-10-22 22:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by heath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could tell her how you fill, and its could end yr friendship, all i know as i have been out with a mate and its just did not works, now i lost him as a mate ,
2006-10-23 04:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by tauntonsomersetblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man respects the woman, the woman respects the man.
2006-10-22 22:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship with her boyfriend is serious and she is happy then no you shouldn't say anything.
2006-10-22 22:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Melany K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a boyfriend- why would you want to ruin things for her. If they break up- home in! Then let her know
2006-10-22 22:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by antagonist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋