My boyfriend goes to the casino to try to win money to help us pay for bills now we are so much indedt they took my car it got reepo cause he always have to go to the casino to win money to pay on on I try my best to keep him out of ther if I don't go he will get mad if we go and he lose money I will get yelled at its had not to go to the casino and not for me to play... I need help what should I do my life is done
2006-10-22 21:59:11 · 20 answers · asked by emily_noll2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your life isn't done, you will get out of this low point, and the first way to do it is get him out of your life. If he doesn't make plans to get over his addicition, then he doesn't care much for you. He's only thinking of himself, and hurting you in the process. You can do better.
2006-10-22 22:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who attempts to win at a casino, just so he will be able to pay bills, is sadly disillusioned. One person in thousands (or millions) win anything.
It sounds like he is taking his money and all of yours. You have already lost your car -- do you think it will get better? In this situation, things will only accelerate and spiral downhill (way down!)
STOP TRYING TO KID YOURSELF ! By staying with him, you are enabling him. You have only one choice. Turn around and get away -- far, far away. If you stay, you will have no one to blame but yourself. You must end this DRAMA that you're in--IMMEDIATELY !! You think it can't get worse? YOU HAVE NO IDEA. Get out while you can ! You say your life is done? Not yet, but it's getting there ! Good luck !
2006-10-22 22:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..... It is indeed sad that your boyfrnd has got into this addictive game. I would suggest talking to him and if he doesn't listen still then dump him. Remember your life and self respect comes above anything else in this world. You have already jeopardized your life now don't do that to your self respect. You have the capability to work and take care of yourself. Remember once a gambler always a gambler. he doesn't need to gamble to pay rent and other debts. he can work too and if he thinks working is demeaning, then you are wasting your time with him. get a hold of your own life befr it is too late. Good luck
2006-10-22 22:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by highrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he needs to get help for a gambling addiction or you need to get out. You can catch up your bills eventually, but not if he keeps going to the casino.
2006-10-22 22:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he needs 2 recognize he has an addiction 2 gambling & agree 2 get help. If he doesn't want it, then you leave immediately. Everytime he gambles the ante is your happiness and he involved you in his habit by getting your auto repo'd. He's always going 2 chase money that's not there if he doesn't get help &you will always be 1 step away from being destitute.
2006-10-22 22:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by BK1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you first need to know is that gambling is very, very addictive, just like drugs. Once a person's hooked, it's over. All the fights in the world won't make your boyfriend stop. If it wasn't for the fact that he takes his losses out on you, I would have advice counseling for him, but it's clear that in this case he won't be willing to go. So, the only advice I can give you, is to get out of that relationship or otherwise he'll take you with him. Believe me, he's in for disaster!
2006-10-22 22:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 things in life a man can never get rid of .. wine and casino .. ask him to stay away from casino unless he wants you to be seen with someone else ...
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Sameer Shaikh
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2006-10-22 22:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your life is a heaven. Your are abused to give money to him. He is mad when you didn't go because of he will not have money to gamble. You should say the condition to him. either stay out of there or say goodbye to him
2006-10-22 22:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by batcannua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first - leave him, and everything will fall into place for you. your life is not done, you have a choice, it's just a matter of making the right one.
2006-10-22 22:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should either get your bf to call the gamblers anonymous and if that doesn't work then you should leave your bf because if he continues to gamble then you will lose everything.
2006-10-22 22:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋