2006-10-22 22:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because some see friendship and marriage as two different things... They think of a relationship as.."the next level". But, really, a good love relationship whether it's marriage or not is based on a good friendship.
2006-10-22 22:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will just happens when one of both partners stop being romantic. So, don't relax too much once you get married. Try to remember what drew you to each other in the first place. Make time to be together alone. Do the little things for each other that you know your partner will appreciate. Don't ever stop laughing when you're together. Always think of new ways of love making. And never choose a friend over your partner!
2006-10-23 05:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my theory...opposites attract and marry. Then after a few years they go separate ways because of different interest. I think it would be wise if people went against their instinct and marry someone with more in common so at the end of the day you have something to talk about. And especially when you have empty nest. I've tried to become more of a friend to my husband but life gets in the way and it doesn't work.
2006-10-23 06:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the relationship changes. People have different ideas of being married, you take each other for granted. You see the person's true true colors. I actually lived with my husband for 5 years before we got married, he still changed after it. We had the reverse problem though, we were friends but not lovers.
2006-10-23 05:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are better friends after being married 3 years now.
2006-10-23 05:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by LifeMatrix2012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were best friends for several yrs before we tied the knot and we are still best friends. Nothing has changed in that department and I think it's very important to keep that aspect of your relationship alive, especially after being married.
2006-10-23 05:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they stop being passionate lovers and they being just very very good friends.
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2006-10-23 05:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because they get too familiar and routine with eachother. It is good to keep interest in marraige by doing things for and with eachother, never ever take your spouse for granted.
2006-10-23 05:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by plitsmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they tend to take each other fro granted and then expectation and boundaries seep into the relation. With frnds you dont expect and there are no boundaries.
2006-10-23 05:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by highrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋