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what do u do when u lost a postive situation?
what do u do when u lost a great potential for having a meaningful relatioship, just awesome, and now its not possible anymore... what do u do to make urself happy and whole and feel better? what do u do next???

2006-10-22 21:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

9 answers

Dude, in life you will always lose positive situations, no matter what you do. Its always going to happen, and most of the time its going to have to do with relationships. But what happened to make it not possible anymore? I'm gonna take a guess that it was something that you did, otherwise you wouldn't feel this bad about it.

In all honesty, there's nothing that anyone can tell you that will be right. Everyone is going to throw out suggestions like, "go to God", or "read a book", or "take a nice bath". But they all won't work, they just take your mind off of it for awhile and it comes back to haunt you. So i won't suggest something like that. Deal with what has happened in your head, sort out the issues, realized what you/they did, then take it as is. Chalk it up to a learning experience as opposed to regretting it and feeling sorry for yourself.

Relationships will come and go, there are millions of people in the world, so you shouldn't get stuck on what you could have had with one person. So get back out there, don't be so hard on yourself, trust me, eventually you'll look back at this and be wondering why you were so ridiculous and hard on yourself. Best of luck....

2006-10-22 22:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0 0

When something ends, a job , friendship a relationship etc.... I find myself excited for the adventure of not knowing what to expect in the future. If you lost a relationship, you will sure find someone else, there is always a reason why people break up and I just see a it as a necessary change in order to grow up. Nothing on this earth is forever and we must be positive and look always forward.
Take a trip to a new country and enjoy life!!!!!!!

2006-10-23 06:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by marque1717 4 · 0 0

First of All BELIEVE that GOD is with you for HELP.
think positively & pray regularly GOD to solve your problem.
Discover Other Happy points of your LIFE & follow them for happiness.
Be cheerful & jubiliant everytime. ( Other persons are suffering from more severe problems than you..& yet they are cheerful..God have given you better life compare to OTHERS ! )

Be optimistics your profound prayers will ensure a firm happness to YOU by GREAT GOD you worshipped...

Take Care...

2006-10-23 04:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anand 1 · 0 0

when you think the world has turned it's back on you take a look again .... when you make a big mistake for sure something good comes from it

2006-10-23 05:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by artis 2 · 0 0

never regret for what u lost. look for new things in life

2006-10-23 04:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0 0

it takes two to tango. if you can be a little specific on your question, what you're getting at...has the other done so badly?

2006-10-23 04:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by joan 2 · 0 0

nothing is in our hand.i just left it to god.and keep quiet.i go in my own way what i like.,to be happy.then everything comes normal.

2006-10-23 04:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you learn from your mistakes and move on and don't look back.

2006-10-23 05:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

simple, move on.

2006-10-23 04:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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