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I understand men are raped as well.

But woman always seem to be the victims. I don't understand like if someone trys to rape you, kick him do something don't give up. Woman should start taking some Karate classes or something. Because it's getting sad hearing this storys, where woman in other country not in just the USA are being abused.

2006-10-22 21:51:47 · 20 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

Issa H: That is not the point, if you have something useless to say then don't say anything at all.

2006-10-22 21:55:16 · update #1

Martin W. S: I understand men can be abused by woman as well, I have heard cases. I thing men should tell so society is more aware. If you look from what I said that women seem to always be the victims. Which means you always hear storys of woman always being rape but not men as well.

2006-10-22 22:02:25 · update #2

And about the war issue maybe tell the person who runs this country. They are women who want to fight in wars. They are never allowed like men because we seem to be weak. This is related to my question, that women always seem to be looked as weak. If you look back in history women had to be house wifes they could not join the war. So it's not womens fault that they can't join war maybe ask man why women can't join.

2006-10-22 22:04:57 · update #3

It does not matter how sexy you dress, no one deserves to be rape. People should stop blaming how girls dress, there might be a girl that might not dress sexy and she can still be rape. It's not how you dress.

2006-10-22 22:06:50 · update #4

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rapists don't pick women at random... they select their victims carefully. they choose the ones who would provide less resistance. so yes, you have a point, all women must learn how to defend themselves... or at least, make themselves look more intimidating or imposing. they should also attend certain seminars on basic self defense... not just through combat, but through proper education in learning which alleys to avoid, what kinda guy to go out with, where to place your belongings when you're on the road, etc.

2006-10-22 21:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 2 0

hi there i agree with the point that woman should take karate classes or self defence but what happens when a womn or man for that matter gets into that situation through no fault of there own and just freezes through complete fear there is no escape for that you can take all the classes and even then you could still freeze how does that work ,and lets face it there are a lot of people how are more than capable of sticking up for them selves but this can put there breaks on ,the other point is the victim .......you only stay a victim if you dont push youre self back into life and that can take a long time to get that bit sorted out in youre head or heart to start living life again but step by step any one can become a SUVIVIOUR AND NOT A VICTIM AND THATS THE IMPORTANT BIT .......BUT WHAT ABOUT THE COURT SYSTEM SHOULD THAT NOT CHANGE THE WAY IT DEALS WITH THOSE HWHO HAVE HAD THIS DONE TO THEM ,.....should the rapist not get the hard time in court instead of the person that has been raped ......surley they are the ones trying to get this piece of crap of the streets to make other woman and men safe ??

2006-10-22 22:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0 0

Because some women are careless and go out into bad areas alone. (ie walking home from a bar in a bad neighborhood). Also, I hate to say it, but between an average woman and an average man, the man is going to be stronger. Plus, most women don't think about it, cuz it can "never happen to them". But I'm not saying give up. I've wondered similar things before. Also, what is sad is that most women are afraid to come out and say they were raped because of possible repurcussions. (the guy coming to get her again or kill her, or being branded as a slut) But yeah, honey, unless you've been raped, you have NO place to say what to do to stop the guy. Its tough.

2006-10-22 22:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie B 3 · 0 0

Well I personally think that alot of girls that are getting raped today is because of the clothing and they way they are presenting themself's.... Not saying that in a mean way.. because there are alot of women that I wish I could look like.. But alot of women dont realize that what there wearing really is a target for guys... Guys, men are very VISUAL!!! Its not so bad when its an adult.. but these adults that are letting there kids wear short skirts, short shorts, thongs, g strings.. .COME ON.... 11 and 12 year olds thats not good at all!!! For example I was in a party store today looking for halloween costume... there was a girl in there she said to her friend.. I know im only 13 but im gonna get the playboy bunny outfit for halloween!! and the mom bought the outfit!! Just does not make any sense to me.. Alot of the problem is the parents.. As for the adult rapes.. i really dont know what to say about that other than I agree with you about taking self defense or karate lessons.. I hope this helps

2006-10-22 21:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Well, I think the point of most of the movies on that network is that the women are strong and blah, blah, blah and somehow get back at their rapist, abuser, etc...But yeah, I don't know why women would want to watch a bunch of movies about women getting raped. Although, I've seen some okay movies on there that had nothing to do with rape or any other kind of violence against women.

2016-05-22 00:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well men are beeing raped as well or tortured in different ways (also by women !!!).
Just check out the movie with Michael Douglas and Demi Moore (disclosure ?) where she tricks him into sexual intercourse, then blame him for raping her. Sexual harasment is a thing itself.
Why should we help women to get into the coat or tell her, that she is cute today cause her new hairstyle, and we get accused of SH.
Men are dying in wars for example. Some women also dress too provocative. Why ?
I feel bad for the victims, but how about men ?
Arent they dying in so many wars and conflicts ?

2006-10-22 21:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0 1

Sorry love but you're an idiot. Fight back, thats your answer. Ever thought the rapist may be stronger than the victim or have a weapon. Fighting back can in many cases make the attack worse. Oh and there's also a little biological issue called Fight or Flight. You can look it up and see if you understand the big words. Let's hope this never happens to you, because you may have to eat your words. It's easy to talk big when you've never been in that situation isn't it.

2006-10-24 07:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Georgie's Girl 5 · 0 1

because some men are mindless animals and shouldnt be apart of society. others lack confidence and feel in control when they attack a girl. girls are smaller and weaker easy to panic and tend to walk alone. many are also just wrong place wrong time. even a pack of guys trying to out do each other until some one goes too far. then there are guys that hate women and take what they see as revenge out on a girl who looks like the girl that hurt them. i once stopped a guy from almost killing a girl but i was too late to stop him from raping her. as i dragged him off her he kept screaming she had to die. she never knew him or why. he was described as mentally ill but i know he knew what he was doing. i just wish people like him are able to get help so it doesnt happen again. if you were attacked like that i am sorry for you and hope you are doing better. just rely on family and friends and you will do better.

2006-10-22 22:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0 0

don't you think they fight back? its hard when you are in that situation, its easy to say that but when reality sets in, sometimes you froze. its not your fault its just nature. When population gets high, crimes is high, especially when people are unemployed and living in poverty. Not only women mostly children are always abuse.This box is not enough to explain everything. Women is beautiful, men likes women.Rapist have mental problems, emotionally and physically. He can be assaulted when he was young, same raped, abused. He can be addicted to sex, pornography, violent sex, to a person or behaviour that turns him on. Men have animal instinct, to hunt and to do what they have to do. Women on the other hand have more control, its also animal instinct, female just wait till she finds the right one for her and reject she doesn't like.

2006-10-22 22:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 0 0

Yes. Women become victim of rape. This is because the b/f proves cheater. His main object of having friendship is to have sexual intercourse. He tries to have an opportunity to overpower girl and **** her. I agree that karata will do something but not safeguard chastity of girl comletely. This is because of social and physical circumstances . Girls should have some insight and intelligence to safeguard themselves from such boys who simply cheat and their main objective is to ruin girls by indulging in rape. Such boys should be kicked out and not encouraged.

2006-10-22 22:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

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