Family & Relationships - 22 October 2006

i asked out my friend back in january and she said no. she was reeling from a break up back then. she was in high school back then. now shes in college as am i. theyre about an hour apart. i can say 100 percent she doesnt wanna date right now. she doesnt wanna be tied down. i really want to advance our relationship pats friends. what should i do??

2006-10-22 21:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that she and her girlfriends find it amusing but the makeup and dresses are really starting to humiliate me. She said if I refused she would leave me.

2006-10-22 21:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i talk to my exs and i dont know how taht is really holding with my man

2006-10-22 21:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by Cathrin Sinclair 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont date much i am 2 busy with law school, and both of my parents are in the armed forces when i take my gfs 2 meet my folks they freez up and dump me later.

2006-10-22 21:36:39 · 18 answers · asked by ajthespacemonkey 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently I have been getting some texts from My Ex Boyfriend's best friend. He usually starts by asking me simple questions like..what I'm up to and How I'm doing...then he always ends up asking when we are going to hang out and do something. Whenever we plan a date and time to do something he always bails out... he has done it several times. Why? When He is always the first to text me and encourage a hangout.
He also lives with my ex boyfriend..could it have something to do with it? (I haven't hung out or talked to my ex boyfriend for almost 8 months) I'm confused!?

2006-10-22 21:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Singles & Dating

This was the birthplace around 1856 for an ancestor.
Does it still exist (around Boston?)

2006-10-22 21:34:49 · 2 answers · asked by Albert A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this girl for 6 months. She has guy friends that she doesn't want to tell that she has a boyfriend. She tells me that it isn't their business and if they ask she will tell them. But it bugs me that some of the guys send her text messages that say "good night" or send pics of themselves. what does it mean?

2006-10-22 21:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by Alexander E 2 in Singles & Dating

the girl i like moved away couple years ago to florida and then few months ago i moved to texas and she is gonna come visit texas

so i'm wondering should i ask her out in person, online, or on the phone?


and what creative ways can i ask? i don't just wanna come out and say it

2006-10-22 21:34:36 · 4 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 21:33:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy wont leave me alone and l dont like him and he keeps asking me to go out with him and l keep saying no to him l dont know what l can do l have tried every thing i can think of i hope somone can help me with this problem l really want him to leave me alone

2006-10-22 21:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf and i was just..what they called "friends with benefits", his real gf was outside US. they broke up because the girl knew our relationship. he was so depressed when his gf broke with him...suddenly he wanted to have child with me. now we have our beautiful son..but were not married yet. i wonder how'd did i be so blinded being a subtitute. i'm so confused now, i love him but i'm not secure in our set up...pls. help. i need advices......

2006-10-22 21:32:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well.. we can talk about anything... but he just doesn't study that much... we've known each other for 4 years.. but he still doesn't study no matter how hard i encourage him. everytime i advice him, he replys my texts... but nowadays,,, even a simple 'good luck' he wouldn't reply.

i'm told that sometimes guys need their space to find themselves, so i should leave him alone. but, should he be like this? or are we losing this friendship? I wanna support him but not overwhelm him at the same time. how can i go about this?

2006-10-22 21:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Friends

Im 17 years old, white/caucasian, 5 feet, thin, blonde, I love animals, love music, art, poetry, i want to live in a big city like san francisco or new york and work for an animal rescue, not great in school, dont want kids, not sure about marriage, cool with premarital safe sex while in a faithful relationship, politics - Green Party, religion - Buddhism, im vegan
Dream guy: positive, uplifting, inspirational
1. I am happy with my life!
2. I am grateful for my family and friends!
3. I am grateful to have people who love and care about me!
4. I accept myself the way I am!
5. I accept other people the way they are!
6. No matter what is going on, it’s only temporary!
7. I can handle anything that life throws at me!
8. I am always striving to do better!
9. I will learn from my mistakes!
10. Life is a gift and I will enjoy it!

2006-10-22 21:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Holly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 21:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by boncwen 1 in Singles & Dating

some people have said that she has died but ive looked in the deaths columns and her family has not heard from her either well my question is how can i find out?

2006-10-22 21:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by Danny g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been married 8 years and have just cut of my thumb need help in great anniversery present

2006-10-22 21:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by james c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both 20 years old...we have been married for a year and are having a baby in 2 weeks... All he cares about nowadays are playing Death metal on his guitar with his friends that I dont like, and drinking. We used to be so close.. before his high school friends came back into his life. Our coupled friends dont even like hanging around him anymore because he is so wrapped up in his music. I love him so much and all I want to do is have a happy family but Im starting to get sick of him... I find myself wishing that I could move away from all his young friends and start over in a new place... what do I do?

2006-10-22 21:27:39 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies, how much money, per year, must a guy make for you to date him? For the sake of argument, lets say he's a 4 out of 10 in the looks department. Guys, feel free to chime in with your guesses.

Don't even bother posting if you're going to say that money doesn't matter because if you're going to post that you're either in denial, lying or naive. For your own sake, I hope its that your naive and I encourage you to stay that way for as long as possible. Trust me, you'll be happier.

2006-10-22 21:25:55 · 16 answers · asked by Takfam 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-22 21:24:06 · 20 answers · asked by priyanshu007 1 in Family

I have asked before to just call so I dont worry, but i think as the hours get later and later he is afraid to call because he knows i will be upset/mad. plus i think he privately likes seeing me upset when he has been out, like it verifies i really do love him or something. he also says that staying home all the time is boring and he needs to socialize to be ok in his life, but why doesn't he at least call? I know he is not a cheater. what other reasons can there be for this selfish behavior, is it even selfish or am the one being selfish for overreacting? he is otherwise a good husband.

2006-10-22 21:24:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am I the only guy out there who is looking for this kind of relationship? Women can you please help me?

2006-10-22 21:22:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are they unhappy in the relationship? Is it possible they dont know what they are doing? Doesnt everyone know when they are flirting?
Not just a joke or look every now and then but i mean romantically and being very physical. comments...opinions... please : )

2006-10-22 21:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I juz wanted to know

2006-10-22 21:22:24 · 9 answers · asked by Frendlygal 3 in Singles & Dating

He is not changing but it is difficult to let it go. And ones that are accomodating to you, you are not interested in. Any ideas?

2006-10-22 21:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

i have worked with both and im working with all men now. i prefer men. women are more competive in all ways than men. men are easier.

2006-10-22 21:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

we had a one-night stand ages ago but we are both in long term relationships. i cant get him out of my mind. how can i tell if he feels the same?

2006-10-22 21:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by michelle s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-22 21:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by Y 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm seeing this one man, he usually is very up to date with fashion, dress neatly, have his body and arms waxed, and have ton of personal hygiene products such as lotion, hair products, and other things. He like to cook, read a lot and keep his place totally spotless and looking very neat.

On other hand he do boxing, wrestling, and several other martial arts, rock climbing, shooting, collect firearms, travel to third world or offbeat routine, and studies about military and history. He have a lot scars as well.

He show a lot of affectionate when he's around me but he's usually aloof and cold toward others.

Is he actually a metrosexual or not? I really don't want to date a guy who will turn out like all those whinny metrosexual feminie guys.

2006-10-22 21:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I'm on a study abroad programme, and I met this guy, we're pretty close, we have best friends relationship and I think we like each other (at least I like him) , but we both know we have no future in our relationship, since he'll stay there for at least 2 other years, and he doesn't want a long distance relationship. So, should we talk about "us"? (but it might ruin the friendhip) or just let it go, and keep in touch until we meet again?

2006-10-22 21:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by litha_girl 1 in Friends

2006-10-22 21:14:56 · 28 answers · asked by charles m 2 in Singles & Dating