i asked out my friend back in january and she said no. she was reeling from a break up back then. she was in high school back then. now shes in college as am i. theyre about an hour apart. i can say 100 percent she doesnt wanna date right now. she doesnt wanna be tied down. i really want to advance our relationship pats friends. what should i do??
2006-10-22 21:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are friends, then she trusts you and likes you - work on those qualities you have in the relationship - be honest and sincere about her situations as she confides in you - compliment her on her hair, taste in clothes or accomplishments without being too sappy and obvious - just subtly from time to time - she'll see that you're into her as a person and may not want to lose that since you may be the only one that treats her as a real person with great qualities.....wouldn't you like someone more if they built you up a bit?
2006-10-22 22:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I know that you don't want to be in a relationship but I just want to let you know whenever you are I want to be that man you date" You could say something like that. Let her know that you want more but you won't push her into having a serious relationship. Tell her when she's ready for more than friendship because you want to be with her. Ask her if she dated would she date you?
2006-10-23 04:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to date you, there is nothing you can do. Just move on and find someone who does want to be with you. Sorry... I know it's rough and I've been there.
2006-10-23 04:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Zloar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and a good friend until she is ready then she might look to you as the kind of guy she wants to be with.
2006-10-23 04:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be easy, take it slow. Just be her friend, and if she has feelings for you, eventually they will show, and that's when to make your move.
2006-10-23 04:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in regular touch,dont makr her to be bored on you,give her best advices when neede,makr her to believe you
2006-10-23 04:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by krishnakumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋