I have been dating this girl for 6 months. She has guy friends that she doesn't want to tell that she has a boyfriend. She tells me that it isn't their business and if they ask she will tell them. But it bugs me that some of the guys send her text messages that say "good night" or send pics of themselves. what does it mean?
2006-10-22 21:34:42 · 13 answers · asked by Alexander E 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend is not committed to your relationship and prefers to keep herself open to offers. There's nothing essentially wrong with that as long she is above board about it and understands that the same rules apply to you. If I were you, I would let her set the commitment level in your relationship from now on. If she just wants to be glorified friends with benefits, learn to live with it ... and enjoy.
2006-10-22 21:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...That The Guy Is A Good Friend To Her? That What I Would Mean If I Said That And I'm A Girl
2016-03-28 04:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You & she have only been together a short time, if it is only 1 guy then yes, she probably does feel for him, however, you said THEM so I presume that she just dosen't want to be teased.
My best mate (& flatmate) is a bloke, we've been mates for 13yrs & I often text him goodnight if he's staying away or whatever, it dosen't mean anything, he has a girlf & she's totally cool with us.
Just stop worrying that she's not ready to announce you to the world & enjoy the very special time you're having together.
Infact, I make it a condition of my going out with someone that he accepts my mate & I are close & dosen't stress or get jelous
2006-10-23 00:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something on the side is going on, ESPECIALLY after 6 months, now, if they were just guy friends and ONLY friends, they would have asked about boyfriends or what she was doing in her spare time. Get rid of her, before u waste anymore than 6 months. Sorry bud, Better luck next time.
2006-10-22 21:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by shortie_49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want to lose her guy frens...and she might not really be ready to be in a relationship with you. i'd know, coz i WAS like that before. i didn't want any of my guy frens to know i am attached co it would mean they would spend less time with me, talking and joking ard. but now i am proud of my status and i prefer to tell my guy frens that i am in love.
...or it means you're ugly and she doesn't want anyone to tease her for that.
2006-10-22 21:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means she is dating them too and does not ant them to know she is taken, so loose her.
2006-10-22 21:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she loves you she won't hide it... she may be kind of flirtative with her guy "friends" and she doesn't want to stop flirting... it could mean nothing but there may be more to it....
2006-10-22 21:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this. You just need to accept that answer.
2006-10-22 21:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that she mite lik one of her guy friend nd mite try to get together wit him if ye don't work out!
2006-10-22 21:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has some interest in them.
2006-10-22 21:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋