Ladies, how much money, per year, must a guy make for you to date him? For the sake of argument, lets say he's a 4 out of 10 in the looks department. Guys, feel free to chime in with your guesses.
Don't even bother posting if you're going to say that money doesn't matter because if you're going to post that you're either in denial, lying or naive. For your own sake, I hope its that your naive and I encourage you to stay that way for as long as possible. Trust me, you'll be happier.
2006-10-22 21:25:55 · 16 answers · asked by Takfam 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In response to: How much SEX does a WOMAN have to MAKE before YOU'LL date HER??
3 times a week at the bare minimum, but at least I'm honest about it, unlike your blatant dodging of my question.
2006-10-22 22:01:55 · update #1
40,000 at least
2006-10-22 21:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i dont know how much my opion will be of help since im 17. But i have lived self supportedly on my own for two years, and have a good sense of the so called "real world."
I personally have yet to look at a specific number, or not date a guy because he has no income. But i would have to say that he should make enough money to support himself at least, not saying that ladies should depend on men to support them. Nor vice-versa. P.S....its not only about how much he makes, its how he spends it too. some guys are making enough money but are finacially retarded.
2006-10-23 04:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by shortie_49 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Money makes the world go round and I second to your post. On the contrary, there is one thing that all these boils down to if a girl will date a dude or not, and that is... "Is she interested in him?"
This dude may have all the money in the world, but money can't buy feelings. If she's honestly not interested, then she's not. She's an independent being and speaks her mind. It's not the amount of cash you got in your real estate or your swiss bank account. Other factors matters. Ask a girl.... they want someone to make them laugh, not the Ka-Ching $$
chilleguy27
2006-10-23 04:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not really about figures (and sorry... the actual amount really does not matter) all I need to know is that he is able to support himself, and won't be a drain on me.
I earn my own money, and am happy to leave it that way, he has his and I have mine.
Of course it is nice to treat or be treated by someone occasionally, but just because I enter a relationship I don't want to either loose my Independence or gain a dependent, if that makes any sense at all...
(Of course a millionaire would be nice, but I just don't see that happening)
2006-10-23 04:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by HP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure...but he would have a make a decent amount...I would want him to be able to live well (have his own place, a nice car, and dress well too) and I would want him to have extra money to take me out and pretty much have financial freedom to go out and do spontaneous things.
If he doesn't have that much it wouldn't be a big deal as long as he had his own car and privacy @ his place (if he had roommates). I wouldn't mind going Dutch on a few things or even picking up the bill sometimes.
2006-10-23 04:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by julieanthony469 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enough for himself to live off of w/out asking me for money.. if i fall 4 a guy i fall.. if i want something..i can go out and get that for myself...naive.. naive is not knowing yet that the only thing you can't really provide 4 yourself is the warmth and fullfilment of a good partner in life... money probs. will come an go.. no matter how much th' guy makes 2 day..2 morrow he could b flat broke..
2006-10-23 04:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough to take care of himself i suppose even though money isn't an issue i refuse to support any man i already have kids don't need another
2006-10-23 04:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he would have to make enough to satisfy himself, another, and still be able to save. I don't think it is a question of how much money he would actually make, but a question of how well he manages the money he does make.
2006-10-23 04:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF he has 2 CENTS worth of a mind, I'll date him
Got a question for ya---
How much SEX does a WOMAN have to MAKE before YOU'LL date HER??
If it's lousy ignorant generalizations you want to make, I'm game
2006-10-23 04:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If I was single. He'd have to be a hard working, and honest man and have a stable life. Id say it have to be over 20,000/yr or more.
2006-10-23 04:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say enough money to support himself, be an independent person, and he has to time/money, enough to take the girl to different places, so .... humm you have to be pretty stable in life. :)
2006-10-23 04:29:40 · answer #11 · answered by Tank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋