we had a one-night stand ages ago but we are both in long term relationships. i cant get him out of my mind. how can i tell if he feels the same?
2006-10-22 21:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by michelle s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Quit your job. Stay away. None of this could be healthy and it would never work out. Especially if you are both in long-term relationships. Quit thinking about only yourself for a change.
2006-10-22 21:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by seaurchin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid it like the plague, girl. Having relationships (sexual or other) with people at work is like peeing in bed. At first it's really a huge relief and feels nice and cozy, but pretty soon it turns cold and uncomfortable. This is even more true because he's your BOSS. Who do you think is going to get fired first if something goes wrong? Not to mention that you both are in relationships and cheating is totally immoral.
2006-10-23 04:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him
Both of you are in committed relatiionships.....what about being faithful don't you understand????
You think of him because you did the prohibited deed and it was a rush. And actually that is all it was. A rush. Get your rushes elsewhere. Office romances get very messy and can not only cost you your job it can also end the relationships you are both in., The odds of your relationship being anything in the future are just about zero to 1. Not worth it .
2006-10-23 04:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at work never work out.. Stick to fantasizing about it or you will be in an awkward situation when you break up again or sleep with him and he moves on to the next employee of the month. Then you will get jealous when you see them together and end up running over her and him with a car.
2006-10-23 04:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to leave the relationship you are currently in? If this boss of yours didn't pop into your mind suddenly would you still want to leave the person you are currently with? if not then you need to get your boss out of your head quit jobs if you need to. If you do decide to get with him you need to leave your job dating the boss will not go over well with your co workers and it will be stressfull and there will be backstabbing every time you tutn around. so you have to ask yourself these questions...Are you ready to quit your Job? Do you really want to leave your boyfrien?
2006-10-23 04:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try really hard to forget about him if you're both in long term relationships. if it gets too bad you could quit your job and work somewhere else...remember it's just a crush and not worth stuffing up your relationship
2006-10-23 04:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone sweety remember he is the boss and you are in a relationship
2006-10-23 04:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you, he'd be there already. Accept it for what it was and be glad you still have your job.
2006-10-23 04:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by maggiebridget09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love with boss is no way be recommended
2006-10-23 04:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new job.
2006-10-23 04:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋