well.. we can talk about anything... but he just doesn't study that much... we've known each other for 4 years.. but he still doesn't study no matter how hard i encourage him. everytime i advice him, he replys my texts... but nowadays,,, even a simple 'good luck' he wouldn't reply.
i'm told that sometimes guys need their space to find themselves, so i should leave him alone. but, should he be like this? or are we losing this friendship? I wanna support him but not overwhelm him at the same time. how can i go about this?
2006-10-22 21:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give him space..........don't pressure him to study...........let him do that on his own..........
2006-10-23 03:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bunch of crap "I need my space" is. He didn't need his space when you were becoming friends, did he? At that time he couldn't wait to see you, could he? Now all of a sudden it's that same old "give me space" stuff. If you are giving him the same amount of space you were in the beginning then his feelings towards your friendship has changed and it seems to me you care very much for him. He's not finding himself. He's finding someone else to chat with. You can not allow yourself to be in a one sided relationship regardless the level. Sit him down and tell him how you feel and at the very least you will have it in the open and you can go from there.
He may need his space but you also need your companionship and if he doesn't appreciate your concern for him, I'm sure there are a lot of guys who would.
Best of luck to you.
2006-10-23 12:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Braveheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes... give him space... don't keep asking him 2 study hard... he might feel pressurized...
2006-10-23 05:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋