Recently I have been getting some texts from My Ex Boyfriend's best friend. He usually starts by asking me simple questions like..what I'm up to and How I'm doing...then he always ends up asking when we are going to hang out and do something. Whenever we plan a date and time to do something he always bails out... he has done it several times. Why? When He is always the first to text me and encourage a hangout.
He also lives with my ex boyfriend..could it have something to do with it? (I haven't hung out or talked to my ex boyfriend for almost 8 months) I'm confused!?
2006-10-22 21:35:04 · 11 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello!! :o) I appreciate why you're confused. But I think you need to back away from that ex-boyfriend's friend. Next time he text-messages you - let him know that you're no longer interested. And then say 'good-bye'. [And mean it] That may seem 'mean' - but I think you are running the risk of being considered his 'doormat' if you keep agreeing to see him even though he continuously bails out. It's also important for you to accept that you do not NEED to 'understand him'. I think a lot of us waste a lot of time and energy on trying to 'understand' people even when they have proven over and over again NOT to be all that considerate of our feelings. Take care of yourself. Craig!! :o)
2006-10-22 22:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way of end your uncertainty, is to ask the friend straight away what his intentions are. Perhaps this is your ex's way of testing you, to see if you will fall for his friend. But just ask its as simple as that.
2006-10-23 04:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both in on it. Same thing happened to me. My ex's friend invited me over( he said my ex was gone for the night) and when I got there my ex was there. They lived together as well. Don't fall for their games they will mess your reputation up.
2006-10-23 04:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suspect possibly you ex might have something to do in this, possibly your ex is using his friend to see what your up to or if your looking for other ppl, possibly your ex is seeing what your reaction would be espicially in texts...possibly your ex is even using his friends phone to text you..I would proceed with caution
2006-10-23 04:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be testing you to see if you would actually date him. Leave him alone, he might be up to something. Guys don't usually respect females who date their exes friends.
2006-10-23 04:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he is interested in you but afraid of your ex maybe .. or maybe they both are playing mind games with you..
Just be clear and ask him what the hell does he want from you..
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Sameer Shaikh
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2006-10-23 04:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, it sounds as though you're being toyed with. I'd watch myself. I'd also tell him to quit calling you. Be strong and assert yourself - be in control, not waiting to see if...
2006-10-23 04:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him...next time he send u text messages dont answer it...maybe he is playing and wants to know more about u...best thing is to ignore them both....
2006-10-23 04:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering their messages, seems like they are playing games with you.
2006-10-23 04:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they're plotting/testing you. i dunno. or the best friend likes you but cant really commit because he might end up hurting your ex. he likes you but he values his friendship w/ your ex?
2006-10-23 04:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by cab5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋