my cousins & i grew up together and we're very close.we're ol girls& r now in hi skul & college.reese,d oldest, doesnt want us to have bfs yet since we have to finish our studies.i usually caught sky & sheryl(reese's young sibs)in d malls&clubs w/ guys. d 2 confessed to me that those guys r their bfs & told me not to tel any1 especially reese bcoz they're scared that reese will b mad @ them. i promised & kept my mouth shut.
lat month,i saw a pic of sheryl making out w/ a guy in her phone camera.it didnt bother me @ 1st until our friends told me that they found a sex video of sheryl & d guy in sheryl's phone!
and just yesterday sheryl & i had a serious talk & she confessed to me that d guy had just forced her 2 have sex w/ him.but what surprised me most is that sheryl had boke up w/ d guy last yr & now had a new bf!& she & her ex r meeting today to "talk."
i wanted reese or any1 else in the family 2 know about this but i think sheryl should do d talking...
what should i do?help?
2006-10-22 21:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
d sex video was real bcoz she told me that they've done it.... they did it about 2 month ago and now sheryl's telling d guy that she's prego. even if it's not true.
on april bennie, another cousin, also found a sent message 2 d guy in sheryl's phone. it said: I CANT BLIV U USED ME. IT'S A GUD THING I DIDNT GET PREGO BCOZ OF UR STUPIDITY... cud it be possible that they've already done it before?
im worried and scared for my cousin. i dont want her to be like this...
2006-10-22 21:51:34 · update #1
i know i sound desperate here because i am... yes, i think my cousin's in big trouble because we the guy's threatening her & wouldnt leave her alone. he's always there stalking her in the phone, the net, and soemtimes at school. even sheryl's new boyfriend hated the other guy bciz of what's he's doing to my cuz.
2006-10-22 22:02:08 · update #2
i certainly understand that this is not exactly something easy to do. i mean, in the first place, it's not your secret so you have no right to divulge it to anyone.
here's what i think: be the higher person. if you think these guys are trouble, or if you think your cousins are in trouble, tell reese. she's older than you and she'll know what to do about it. you have to expect reese to be mad at them, and them to be mad at you for spilling the beans... what's important is not get them in any more trouble than they already are.
i have a younger sister and i can say that i know how reese feels. she and i have the same point of view with regards to finishing our studies first before boys. she's just looking out for you guys. if i were her, i'd certainly want to know, and i'd certainly be disappointed. tell reese, maybe you can even ask her to keep your anonymity - you know, not tell your other two cousins that it was you who spilled on reese.
it's nice of you to want to help. i think they lucky to have you as their cousin and friend. good luck anyway.
2006-10-22 22:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that somethimes it's best just to be silent and if you git involed trust me you might lose your girls. Time has a funny way of working things out. If you do tell you will never be trusted again.Unless you think they are in some kind of danger.
2006-10-22 21:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 14 and that i nevertheless sleep with a blanket and filled animals. Hahahaha. and that i've got extremely low shallowness. on the top of a few days i've got faith extremely fat so the next day I attempt to no longer consume as lots, yet then I do, and that i've got faith extremely responsible and upset in myself. i'm jealous of my sister.
2016-11-24 23:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your friends' secrets. Unless they or you will actually be in danger if you don't tell. Secrets are not told lightly. They are given in trust. You betray that trust at your peril.
2006-10-22 21:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secrects are meant to be just that.... Unless you want to break off your friendship forever.
2006-10-22 21:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out, tell her to be more carefull also how do u think she'll feel about you telling on her
2006-10-22 21:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by klearcut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, keep that all to yourself. how do you feel when they tell what they know about you? Be the better person.
2006-10-22 21:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell it to any one of your family members &ask him/her to solve it secretly
2006-10-22 21:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by krishnakumar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mouth shut / stay out of it .
2006-10-22 21:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont bother
2006-10-22 21:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋