imet the love of my life while on hoildays, we realy fell 4 each other we spent every day with each other, now he is gone home and iam still on hoildays 4 another 3months but we swore that we will c each other again even tho he lives in adifferent country than me but ihave aproblem iam pregrant,should itell him or just leave him 2live his life ihave already ruined mine, ilike him 2much 2 do the same 2him we dont no each other that well 2 have achild 2gether or should itell him. he is 22 iam 19
2006-10-22 22:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by cruise girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its his child
2006-10-22 22:17:19 · update #1
tell him he has a right to no and he might stick around!
2006-10-22 22:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by mum-2-be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get some support and help to deal with this. Having a baby doesn't mean the end of your life either. God has a plan for you, still, with the baby now. Your life is not ruined, its just moving into a new fruitful and exciting season. Forget convention. You are going to have kids early sweetie. You'll be okay.
I think you should talk to some wise friends and family about how to handle things. You might find that a good counsellor would be better than posting questions on here. You should be able to find one at any lively big evangelical church, in any country.
Hope you enjoy the journey! Chin up! It's all in the plan! Exciting days eh!
2006-10-22 22:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by socrates4hemlock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he is the love of your life and you are pregnant by someone else? You need to focus on the child you are having, as they have to come first. I suggest you write to him and mention you are pregnant and see how he reacts but dont expect he will be interested. Holiday romances do not last, thats why they are called holiday romances!
2006-10-22 22:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Annie M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each other as you say and the pregnancy is his then just tell him.
2006-10-22 22:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holiday romances rarely last so just forget about him!!!
2006-10-22 22:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2006-10-22 22:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by mthobisi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋