One day when the teacher was out a sub teacher came in and gave out to her. She is now petrified that her teacher will not come in and insists on us waiting until the teacher arrives. This has lead to tears at bedtime....please help!
2006-10-22 23:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gringoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit your daughter down and explain that not everything will stay the same. Just like when she is not well and has to stay in bed, this can also happen to a teacher. That every year she will change classes and get a new teacher etc.
But you have to ask yourself what is her main worry. That she likes her teacher so much and doesn't want anyone else or is there another issue that she is not saying. When talking to your daughter ask her what does she like about her teacher and what is different with the other teaxher.
It is important to always to encourage your daughter to be open with you and to teach her how to express herself and always resure her. Good Luck
2006-10-23 00:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by christine w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "gave out to her" either.
All I can say is that my 6 eyar old (first grader) had a sub who he did not like. He came home saying that he the teacher was "dumb" and he did not want to go back to school anymore. (He was not allowed a drink that day, which REALLY upset me since I forgot to pack a drink in his lunch lol)
Anyway, I had a talk with his regular teacher when she came back and we got the situation all worked out. My son forgot about it over the weekend and had no trouble attending school the next week.
2006-10-23 03:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by totsandtwins04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what "gave out" means , but it sounds as though the substitute said or did something to your daughter that really bothered her. Do you know exactly what the teacher did? Was it something simply disciplinary, or something more involved? If you can find that out, maybe you can find the resolution you're looking for. For now, I would tell your little girl that even if her regular teacher isn't in, that doesn't mean she'll have the same substitute. They change quite frequently. (When I was in high school, one of my teacher's was out for 2 weeks. We had the same sub twice that whole time.) I hope this helps you out, best wishes.
2006-10-23 00:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest you ask your GP or health visitor to refer your daughter to the local eneuretic clinic. This is a specialist clinic usually dealing with kids over 5-6 yrs age who are still wet during either day or night time. They will take a full history from you and may carry out some tests too. Try not to show her that you are upset, make light of it as much as possible when it happens and just clean her up and don't mention it again. Good luck with it.
2016-05-22 00:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to explain to her that teachers give children into trouble if they have done something wrong but if you think it was unfair you need to talk with the head teacher and tell them that your daughter is so upset its not fair to have tears at bedtime.
2006-10-22 23:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need 2 re-assure her that her teacher will soon be bk maybe havin a word with the head teacher there could help if shes scared they mite employ a new sub teacher if ur not happy
2006-10-23 04:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by hotvix1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh bless her. my daughter also loves her teacher and had the head techer sitting in for half the morning while her teacher had emergency dental work. she went in a bit strange but as the parents were coming in he was explaining to us all why her teacher was absent and they were all fine with that.
why dont you go in with your daughter and have a one to one with here teacher/stand in to talk about her fears, it might just be that she doesnt like her new teacher especially if she has had words. but your daughter needs to understand that she wont go through her school years with the same teacher and that the other teacher is ok too?
good luck
2006-10-22 23:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean the sub teacher gave out to her?
2006-10-22 23:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sorry your question dosent make any sense to me, what do you mean by the sub teacher came in and gave out to her??
2006-10-23 01:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
awww bless her....tell her that her proper teacher is thinking about her and will be back shortly....maybe have your daughter make her an (i missed you card) for when she returns...it's great that a child has a fave teacher...it just shows that the teacher is doing her job properly....bless....
2006-10-23 02:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋