rarely try to change females. They either accept, or walk away. Of course some resort to abuse which is totally wrong. Why do some women take the abuse and finally is cheating the same as abuse in a relationship if its the man cheating and the woman remains faithful? Is he really a man?
2006-10-20 23:53:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its an old joke: Men marry the woman they want, and want her to stay just as she is. Women marry hoping they can make you into the man they want. Its been known to cause some problems!
Ya just got to ask yourself are these changes part of growing up,or not?
2006-10-21 00:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this question is riddled with psychological assumptions but propose another question:
Your question leaves me feeling wuzzy
1. You suggest women are doing the men a favor because they are trying to chain them...im sorry, change them.
Well more importantly you've asked so many WHY questions that are also assumptions, that is impossible to answer all in one.
Abuse is a term that has the range of infinity that someone is always going to try and use to persuade someone else by saying "you should not take 'that' kind of abuse". What's worse? Physical or mental. Which has more devestating consequences?
cheating is a type of abuse certainly, an abuse of respect towards another you have vowed to remain faithful to (not necessarily mirage, Im sorry marriage).
Is who really a man? The guy who cheats, sure he's a man. Ive cheated before but I am actively faithful and committed. Lesson learned. Maybe you could learn your own lesson by deciding you (women)shouldnt try to change him or teach him a lesson show him who's boss by doing him a favor, Greatly loaded question! :) I had fun answering it.
2006-10-21 00:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by lightlytread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy are you wrong. This type of scenario is common in both men and women. There usually is one partner that is more submissive than the other as a way of balance. Though, when it's too off balance...those relationships dont last.
2006-10-21 00:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the females job, nor the mans job to change one another, You go into a relationship because you love someone, not to change them.
2006-10-21 00:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion
girls and young ladies go after the bad boys, because they belive they posses what it takes to change them. they set themselves up to get hurt. (i have seen guys cheat on there woman and then the best friend goes after the guy knowing he is a cheater. they think he won't do it to them)
older women go after the good guys, because they realize the bad ones are not going to change.
2006-10-21 00:04:46 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋