he always says he loves me to other people but he never shows me. my friends even tell me that it doesn't look like he's my boyfriend and that we were closer before we had a serious relationship.
2006-10-20 23:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explain to him what u want
2006-10-20 23:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Sometimes in a relationship things can go a bit flat so speak to him and see what is the solution. Go into it with an open mind and with a view to fixing things, instead of accusing. But be honest to him and yourself and take whatever steps you feel you must. After all, if its over you have to view that realistically too.
2006-10-21 06:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by NDK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Partners in loving relationships need to both be tuned into their partner's needs and must be able to communicate their own needs. If you cannot do this with your partner, you will continue to feel neglected and resentful. If you and your bf feel that you want the relationship to continue, you need to sit down and talk to each other about it or better yet, go for partner counselling. Good luck to you. If all else fails...life is too short and move on.
2006-10-21 06:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started to get serious with my boyfriend on our 3rd month. Be patient darling maybe he want to weigh things. As the saing goes you cannot ask someone to love you all you can do is be a person to be loved.
Be patient. But also put deadline on until when you will wait for him to love you back.
Would you mine help me with my problem too (:-) thanks...
2006-10-21 06:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by eloi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave and find a nice guy..sounds like doenst really care about u...actions speak louder than words...so,if u have doubts and not sure about it break up with him u deserve more than that...u should be treated nice,looks like ur a nice and sweet girl...
2006-10-21 06:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give it up and make other plans without him as often as you can....until you don't want him around anymore. Don't take his phone calls, don't call him or talk to or about him. Sooner or later, he and others will know that you don't take shitola from anyone that disrespects you
2006-10-21 06:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should break up with him, before he does because it really sounds like thats gonna happen
2006-10-21 06:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him a week and if he does not respect or care for you than tell him its over
2006-10-21 06:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Kassandra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months and your having douts...I say talk to him maybe he really doesnt want to be so seriuos so soon....good luck
2006-10-21 06:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by dreamon1star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stay with a guy "just because" - if you aren't feeling it, leave it.
2006-10-21 08:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋