i am facing a father whos almost hyper towards his gurls interests..i have 2 sisters..and we r Jan 1971 ,March 1972(us twins) born.he has openly been biased ..and i dont think i need to explain..Horrifiyngly..my mom is almost the same..ne ways she has never worked and hence has little say.the gurls and their husbands have a free reign(add to it their extended families)i tried hard but have now left home..paying a massive rent.my wife has left me to live with her parents..saying u either rectify ur family and dad or be prepared for divorce..i am an indian punjabi..so hope u advice accordingly
2006-10-20 23:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry to know about your family.
2006-10-23 22:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are having family problems. If I understand you correctly, your father and mother are much more interested in your sisters and their families, than they are in you.
This is sad, but you should be as good a person as you can be because there is nothing that you can do to change other people. You are also 34 years old and are a man now. If you have children I'm sure you will not behave in the same way to your sons.
I'm not sure but maybe in the Punjab parents usually favour their sons, so your situation is unusual. Do you have an Uncle or cousin who could perhaps help you in your situation and speak to your parents for you?
I hope you get on well with your wife's parents. Tell your wife that you love and miss her and hope she returns to you.
I am a woman and all my life my parents were much more interested in my brothers than they were with me, so I do understand how upsetting this is.
Good Luck!
2006-10-21 04:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paul- its funny
u being man why to worry
be separate and just forget
be happy with ur wife.
2006-10-22 02:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋