i have a question to ask u all i have a friend who is very jealous because i have a boyfriend which is her ex of 7 years ago now she says shes fine with it as she is with my ex but when i am with him she turns nasty to me and im gettin fed up of being treated this way and thinking of breaking our 18 year friendship together anyone have any advice on wat to do next
2006-10-23 02:36:43 · 20 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her to F*****G grow up and get a life of her own so if in the future you find a guy you are really happy with and your "friend?" drops the jealous bomb on you again what you gonna do dump him as well and maybe miss out on a very rare lifetime love so put her straight if she cares about you as much as you obviously care about her she should understand if not she is no friend and not worth the worry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well thats my take on it !!!!!!!
2006-10-23 02:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by PARADOX 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She obviously does have a problem with you seeing this guy. Talk to her about it and don't let her continue to lie to you. She either got her heart seriously broken over him or maybe there is some reason she doesn't trust him with you. Did he cheat on her? Find out the real reasons for what's making her act this way and then try to figure out what to do. If you are going to break up an 18 year relationship you had better be sure that this guy is the ONE because if not you are going to end up with no boyfriend, eventually, and no friend either. If you're not absolutely in love with this guy than let him go. You guys have been friends for longer than a lot of people have been married. What can be so extreme that you would get rid of her?
2006-10-23 02:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you want to keep both your boyfriend and friendship. I think the only way to do that is to confront your friend whenever she turns nasty, and tell her that Clearly she's not over him yet, and since you value her friendship even more, you are willing to go slow with your relationship for her shake (you don't actually have to, just say things like that to make her feel better). I am sure you will see a change in her after a while.
2006-10-23 07:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by netwalker01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her, or ask her why she treats you this way, when your boyfriend is around? She is just jealous, and she is not going to stop, if anything she may try and break you two up. It may be best to find some new friends.She needs to move on with her life, and she will be a lot happier!
2006-10-23 02:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want the ex boyfriend of your friend? Sounds like you might be flushing an 18 year old friendship down the toilet.......sure hope he is worth all that
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2016-10-16 06:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jelousy is a very complex emotion and very difficult for the person expereincing it to deal with and understand. Jelousy can be the feeling of betrayal, insecurity, anger, fear and confusion all felt at the same time. You really need to talk to her again and be very open and find out how she feels, make it clear that you want to understand and resolve the issues. As bloke do I really need to tell you this?
2006-10-23 02:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would never date a friend's ex. That's just asking for trouble. Problem solved.
2006-10-23 02:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dump your boyfriend as your 18 year relationship with your friend is more important, what were you thinking?
2006-10-23 02:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are breaking the friendship commandment.... thou shall not date your friends ex....
She's probably not jealous, just hurt that u have not shown any consideration to her feelings.
How would u feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
the same i guess, i know i would
2006-10-23 02:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋