2006-10-23 02:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes...Looks don't last forever...personality does.
2006-10-23 14:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Citizen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt judge a book by its cover - you might miss someone that way that you could be wonderfully happy with.
I am slightly over weight (female) and I always get the same amount of attention (or more) than my "skinny" friends.
Ive got fantastic curves - look at the press always going on about how underweight a lot of the stars look and how they look better with curves. Its more natural. Ive got great assetts so to speak and wouldnt change them for the world.
People who say that they wouldnt go for bigger ppl are just hung up on looks and want someone as "eye candy" but I bet theyre the ones who end up being the most unhappy.
I think that you should love someone for who they are. Just think if for some reason you put on a lot of weight (illness or something) would you want ppl to treat you differently?
Bigger ppl still have a heart and are still the same as everyone else. And dont worry what other ppl think because if you do then you will not find happiness as it might pass you by.
Good luck x
2006-10-23 09:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by passionate_angel101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree that if you don't date someone who is overweight, you are superficial. I am very active, hiking, biking, lifting weights almost every day of the week. I am not in perfect shape, but I am strong and active. I would not want to date a guy who couldn't keep up with me physically. If he was overweight, I doubt he could hike three hours straight up a mountain. I need someone whos lifestyle is compatible with mine. So, it's not his looks I would worry about, but his fitness level and health. Because I also want a guy who will grow old with me, not drop dead of a heart attack or lose his legs to diabetes.
2006-10-23 09:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it their physical appearance you are dating? OF course being overweight shouldn't matter. If you are attracted to this person's personality it will still be there in 50 years, where as their appearance will NOT be.
This is the true measure of love.
2006-10-23 09:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends how overweight the person was. I don't necessarily look at how physically fit a person is. I won't mind a "chubby" guy.
2006-10-23 09:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by shyone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would and i have many times before but there is a limit if the person is 500 pounds or something then they need to be worrying about themselves not being in a relation ship but i dont think there is anything wrong with dating a big guy
2006-10-23 09:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - the last 2 guys I've dated have been "big men" - & guess what?? I discovered I love it!! The main thing is, I date the person, not just the "package". I'm a BBW & I NEVER lack for male attention - not bragging, it's just a fact!!!
2006-10-23 09:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not sure, I don't think so, it is necessary for a every person to look like hero or heroine , he/she can be fat or thin, it dosent matter, if you really want to take him/her for outing.People are having their body due to any reason or any problem , so it is not necessary that you should look their weight , you must check out their heart and their feelings.
2006-10-23 09:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself am overweight....although the men I am attracted to, are not , they are "hotties" but they love women with curves....
2006-10-23 09:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married an over weight person. I fell in love with 'him'.
2006-10-23 09:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would I want to put my efforts into a relationship when the other person doesn't even care about themselves?
2006-10-23 09:25:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋