He's a very understanding boss, but I don't like him as a "man" know what I mean - HELP! b/c of this I avoid speaking directly to him and I feel that he's noticed that I blush!! I feel so embarassed! I can't control it I can't control the blushing
2006-10-23 02:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by shyone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Then we call that 'admiration'.
Just because he is your superior doesnt mean that you cant admire him. So dont feel guilty or ''small'' about yourself,
that way the blushing wont appear to be obvious.
Lucky you ;)
2006-10-23 02:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is that you feel inferior to him. Maybe that's why you blush so much. You don't have to feel that way though. Just because he's your boss doesn't mean he has the right to make you feel that way. Don't worry about the blushing. It's a natural bodily function that you can't control.
2006-10-23 09:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a crush. You may not romantically want this guy, but something about him, either his superiority, demeanor, or resemblance to someone else you've known is making it hard for you to view him as just your boss. Think of it as like the kind of crush you had in 3rd grade on one of your teachers. It didn't mean anything, just made you goofy around them. I say, gain some self-confidence and try to become FRIENDS with your boss, and hopefully you'll feel more comfortable with him.
2006-10-23 09:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by selbrit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have this kind of disorder or something. Like a shyness problem. I advise you to go to a psychiatrist or got o a help website. Are you sure that you don't like your boss in that way? Some people can just be in denial or they're not sure what love is........
2006-10-23 09:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hey look at the Sun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are "not sure" of your standings, or he makes you uncomfortable, the blood rushes to your head and you blush.
You should look in the mirror and practise what you want to say to him, thus, you will gain more self confidence and after you get that, the blushing should go away.
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-10-23 09:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that I have the same problem, but not so much blushing. I beleive its because your concetrating so much on trying not to something extremely stupid while in his presence and also trying to appear to be professional, but because you are concentrating so hard on this your probably doing the total opposite.
2006-10-23 09:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by cbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you blush, I think you feel intimidated by the fact that he is your boss. Think of something or someone else when you talk to him. That has happened to me.
2006-10-23 09:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happens to me when i speak to people who are in "authority", it is very difficult and annoying and embarrasing.
2006-10-23 09:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by texascomet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you seriously want to rip all his clothes off and take him right there, against his desk...or maybe over there, against the wall...or maybe on the copy machine...or maybe...
2006-10-23 09:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you like him...just try to relax when talking to him.
2006-10-23 09:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋