Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

2006-10-23 02:56:14 · 8 answers · asked by nima2006 2 in Family

He ended up not being able to see me because he had to help his sister with her new baby. He and I had a talk about me calming down when it comes to our relationship. I tend to over think things and then i get horrible anxiety attacks. He told me to call him satruday morning so i could come over then. I called him and his mom said she wasn't sure where he was. I called later in the day, and she told me that he was helping his dad fix a pipe. On sunday morning, I tried calling again, but the phone was busy. Well my phone rang and it was my boyfriend calling me. He said he got busy the night before and didn't finish till late so he didn't call. I asked what he was doing that day and he said that he was going to his grandparents house to watch the foot ball game. I asked if i could come over tonight and he said yeah. He didn't call me last night. He hasn't been calling as much as he used to, so unless he calls and tells me other wise should I go to his house tonight?

2006-10-23 02:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

In what amounts to one of the stupidest things I've ever done I caused the death of a guinea pig. We had 2 pigs from the time the kids were young. One died a year ago and this one could have lived another 2 years. My wife refused to give it away and so I fed it mice/rodent killer. Besides being a cruel thing for which I have to live with the rest of my life my wife knows the pig was poisoned. So now I have lied to her which also kills me since we have an open and honest marriage. I also have a friend who I put into a funny position because he knows the truth and will have to keep that from his wife to cover for me. Am I better off just going with the truth? If I tell her that puts her in a position where she has to lie to family, friends and neighbors since I don't want them knowing the truth. I will be branded a psychotic and judged the rest of my life I come clean to everybody. Suggestions?

2006-10-23 02:55:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem. My ex said that I have a flirting problem, even though I told her that I was not. I think that she left me because of that and it makes me really sad :( I have a playful personality and I make other girls laugh as result, but not because I like them! So I would like for every girl to answere me this question: How would you define a guy who flirts with you?

2006-10-23 02:55:08 · 11 answers · asked by juanjaycman 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 02:55:06 · 13 answers · asked by MO*MO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he goes to my school, and he's really hot, but he wont ask me out!! and this is his last week at this school
!! he knows i like him, and my bff's keep telling to ask me out, but he wont!! will he ever?

2006-10-23 02:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by Miss.Patton 2 in Singles & Dating

is jelousy in a relationship a good thing?

2006-10-23 02:53:48 · 26 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Singles & Dating

On friday, I was suppose to go see my boyfriend. He ended up not being able to see me because he had to help his sister with her new baby. He and I had a talk about me calming down when it comes to our relationship. I tend to over think things and then i get horrible anxiety attacks. He told me to call him satruday morning so i could come over then. I called him and his mom said she wasn't sure where he was. I called later in the day, and she told me that he was helping his dad fix a pipe. I ended up hanging with my parents for the rest of the day and stayed the night at their house. On sunday morning, I tried calling again, but the phone was busy. Well my phone rang and it was my boyfriend calling me. He said he got busy the night before and didn't finish till late so he didn't call. I asked what he was doing that day and he said that he was going to his grandparents house to watch the foot ball game. I asked if i could come over tonight and he said yeah. He didn't call me last night.

2006-10-23 02:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 02:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

We had a very good sex life before the baby , fore play ,games ,all the things in very sexual relationship .and it has just stopped we only have sex now twice a month if that and it is a stop drop your pants get it and go kind of thing,

2006-10-23 02:52:11 · 13 answers · asked by cowboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i have a mate stay over i don't really know what sort of stuff to do. can you help

2006-10-23 02:51:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 02:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife and I have been married for 19 years. Our sex life has had it's ups and downs (like most I assume). The last four times we have had sex (in the past 2 weeks) I have faked my orgasm. I get hard as a rock and bring my wife to peak sometimes even twice, but I can't get off why? Is that normal for my age, 39? Also is it possible for a woman to get streatched out? It seems like she is more loose than normal.

2006-10-23 02:50:54 · 6 answers · asked by Joesmoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months all i have done is treat him bad & he kept forgiving me now hes finally turned on me and treating me the same. He said that if i dont give him a proper reason why i treated him like that then its over i cant bear to loose him but i know its my fault im meeting him at work at 3.25 this afternoon for a talk , the thing is i dont know why i treated him bad i wish is knew i really do and if i could turn the clock back then i would never have done it in the first place. Please help me with a good reason so i dont loose the love of my life i know you all think i deserve to but i cnt bear it please please help

2006-10-23 02:50:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some bad stuff happened to me a few years ago. Now I am married, living a different life, and I have no idea what has triggered this, but I am having nightmares about the bad stuff that used to happen to me. I am afraid to tell my husband because he doesn't know about my past and probably would not tolerate it. Besides, i told him just a little once. From his reaction, I am afraid to tell him more. So what do I do to get rid of the nightmares so I can get some rest? I can't function like this.

2006-10-23 02:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Lila 1 in Family

If I need to go to the cops because my boyfriends ex girlfriend is harrassing me and verbally abusing me , do I need proof ? what do I need to press charges? Who do I talk to? I cant handle it anymore and I love my boyfriend but is this the right thing to do also he has a 2 yr old with this crazy b*tch.

2006-10-23 02:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by Pompin Jo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a mother of 2 girls 18,and 11.They r both in school,and just your typical kids..play soccer,go to school,hang out with friends,movies,u got the picture!.Ok I have a very close friend who also has 2 girls 16 and 14.Her 16 year old dropped out of school and now lives with 3 guys,and no job,nada..The other one is still in school but has been in juvenial facilities and etc..I love my friend dearly and can't get this out of my head.I ask her how could you let your daughter drop out?how can u let her live with 3 18 year old guys,,How do I except that ,,she didnt stop them from this!!!! How do I deal with this,when it is so heartbreaking to me to see this happen??????

2006-10-23 02:49:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister in law has a huge mouth of lies, opinions etc.
Anyhow..... last night we were out dining for my mothers b-day. She called my phone three times, in a row, before my husband picked it up and put me on.
Well the night before I picked up another family member from the airport.
And all of a sudden my sis, in law calls me, and wants to go out? ??????
My husband said she is gaging me. To see where I stand with her. Because she is uncertain what my time alone w/the other person was of.

And she wants to see how much her mouthing gets her in trouble. (pretty much she talks junk about me, and wants to know how much I know?)

What should I do?

2006-10-23 02:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 15 years, but they have not been happy years. My husband and I have separated 3 times, and the last time was for several months, almost ending in divorce. We talked a little and decided to try again since we have 2 children. Part of the problem is that I am still not happy. Before the last separation, he had cheated on me and I suspect he is doing it again. I am the one who spends time with the kids and doing many things around the house. He works long hours most days of the week, and there are times I don't even feel like I'm married. To make matters even more confusing, there is this truly awesome guy I work with who has been a great friend to me. He knows a lot about this, but not details. I really like this guy but nothing has happened! We have lunch a couple of times a week and that's it. The thing is that he is the kind of man I've always wanted yet I feel stuck in a marriage with someone that I just don't know about anymore. What should I do?

2006-10-23 02:47:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That's a dozen condoms and an Army cot!
Is he trying to tell me something? He did ask me to go camping with him and a few of his friends next weekend so we could all celebrate!

2006-10-23 02:46:29 · 14 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

..but still like women better??

2006-10-23 02:46:26 · 8 answers · asked by steve m 1 in Singles & Dating

Not the first affair in our 30 years (we had a "don't ask, don't tell" agreement for both of us). He broke our rules for not harming the other by carrying on with a woman I know, for 14 mos. in our small community. I was the last to know he was humiliating me here. He took her on trips, spent money on her and was completely obsessed with holding on to her. I found out and made a terrible scene on catching them together We have agreed we love each other and are building a new marriage from the ashes with the help of counseling. I'm depressed, on medication and can not stop thinking about her/him. I'm suffering nightmares and fear my unhappiness will destroy our hopes for the future. We have happy times then I fall again in to the sobbing pit of pain. He is devastated by his actions and is very supportive and loving.

2006-10-23 02:46:19 · 14 answers · asked by Carole K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please humour me as its for my college course many thanks.

2006-10-23 02:45:30 · 24 answers · asked by scot_pix 1 in Weddings

Jenna is my best friend in the whole world. ive known her since forever, and she is about to start dating one of my guy friends, and im ok with it. well recently, this really hot guy came to our church, and Jenna was like, "he is so hot, i have to go talk to him." but she didnt. well the next week, there was a party, and Jenna was going to be there, but i really didnt feel like going. i did anyway. when i got there, Jenna was like, " you know that hot guy from church last week? well he wants your number." so she gave it to him, and he came up to me later, and we started talking and stuff. so i started messing with his phone, and i saw my name already there. when i checked if he had the right #, i realized Jenna had given him the wrong one, obviously cause she was jealous. so i gave him the right one, and later Jenna called me asking me for his number. i didnt want to give it to her, cause i knew she liked him, so i made an excuse. now she doesnt want to talk to me, so what should i do

2006-10-23 02:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this young lady for a little over 7 months now. we have had a few break ups in the past two. A few months ago she told me that she didn't love me anymore and that she did not want to be in a relationship with me. I thought we were over but she is always calling me and asking me to do things for her. I do them and I always feel like I'm being used afterward, but I might not be. It's funny, but I think she does love me. I'm just not sure anymore. Should I call it over and move on or should I give it more time to see what she does?

2006-10-23 02:44:52 · 15 answers · asked by DanoMD 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok asked this once. Gonna rephrase it. When I was a child of 13ish (do not remember the exact age). I fooled around played doctor with a girl 9ish. It was over 20 years ago. (only once) She is bringing it up today because of alot of sexual abuse I understood she recieved as a child. Can she proscute? I understand because of the age diff it might have been a crime in Ark. Can she still proscute? Sorry for asking it again. This whole thing has caused an uproar in my family. thanks.

2006-10-23 02:43:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

stop blaming the younger generation.

2006-10-23 02:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like, do you ever find yourself thinking about your friends having relationships with men?

2006-10-23 02:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by K G 2 in Friends

ok, i got this girl flowers for sweetest day and she really liked them, after i was about to give up, i think she finally likes me, but i need to seal the deal(so to speak/non sexual) ive wanted to date her for a long time, but i just dont know what to do anymore, any ideas on what she would like?

2006-10-23 02:40:53 · 6 answers · asked by Brian M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 02:40:03 · 25 answers · asked by eboni m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships