My sister in law has a huge mouth of lies, opinions etc.
Anyhow..... last night we were out dining for my mothers b-day. She called my phone three times, in a row, before my husband picked it up and put me on.
Well the night before I picked up another family member from the airport.
And all of a sudden my sis, in law calls me, and wants to go out? ??????
My husband said she is gaging me. To see where I stand with her. Because she is uncertain what my time alone w/the other person was of.
And she wants to see how much her mouthing gets her in trouble. (pretty much she talks junk about me, and wants to know how much I know?)
What should I do?
2006-10-23 02:47:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
see the thing is when I am around her, I love her.
But when she is away, I get so angry with her, she always barrows money never pays, lies about me. I have had this woman in the delivery room with each of my children. I care for her, but I dont know if I can tolarate much more.
2006-10-23 02:55:54 · update #1
Does she really mean that much to you? Next time she calls - tell her to "get a life" and hang up.
2006-10-23 02:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be completely up front with her. Let her know what you know that she's said and straight out ask her why she is doing this to you. I mean, what did you ever do to her?! Then tell her that family isn't a competition and like it or not you are both family now so if she has a problem with you she needs to bring it to you like you are bringing your problem with her to her. You are adults now, not children. It's time for her to start acting like one.
2006-10-23 09:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just disregard her, a big mouth always makes things worse than they actually are.
just make sure those who matter to you the most understand what kind of a crapy person she is, and make sure they dont believe anything she says about you.
other than that, just try to stay as far from her as you can, with as little contact as possible.
nothing good comes out from someone like that...trust me on this.
2006-10-23 09:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by mhk9626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find better things to do than to spend time with her. You know how and what she is.
2006-10-23 09:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her if she has something to say, say it to your face or keep her big mouth shut.
they only manipulate if you allow them too.
2006-10-23 09:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either confront her or leave her alone, i would confront her and tell her to knock it off....
2006-10-23 09:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋