He ended up not being able to see me because he had to help his sister with her new baby. He and I had a talk about me calming down when it comes to our relationship. I tend to over think things and then i get horrible anxiety attacks. He told me to call him satruday morning so i could come over then. I called him and his mom said she wasn't sure where he was. I called later in the day, and she told me that he was helping his dad fix a pipe. On sunday morning, I tried calling again, but the phone was busy. Well my phone rang and it was my boyfriend calling me. He said he got busy the night before and didn't finish till late so he didn't call. I asked what he was doing that day and he said that he was going to his grandparents house to watch the foot ball game. I asked if i could come over tonight and he said yeah. He didn't call me last night. He hasn't been calling as much as he used to, so unless he calls and tells me other wise should I go to his house tonight?
2006-10-23 02:55:54 · 14 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, dont play games with yourself, if you tend to over think things - if you dont go you will make it worse for yourself. Go, see how he bahaves, you should be able to tell straight up if something is wrong, if so talk to him... seriously. Good luck chicky xx
2006-10-23 02:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call again before going over to his house tonight. The telephone gets overused, imo. I think you should take up yoga to address your anxiety spells.
As for your boyfriend, please stop calling him so much. He is living his life, and you are not the focus of it. Maybe you should get some activities like visiting nursing homes, helping at soup kitchens, or taking classes in knitting so that you have something to do while he is helping his family.
He doesn't seem to be a bad boyfriend, he puts up with your anxiety attacks, and he isn't out cheating on you, he's being part of a very closeley-knit family.
Work on your own issues without him so that when you spend time with him you are happy and content and not wild and complaining in an over-the-top manner.
2006-10-23 03:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be calm and talk to him. There might not be any issues except for him being really busy.
But, from you saying that you have anxiety attacks when you think about things, that could also be the issue. He may want to end the relationship but is afraid to.
Go to his house as planned, spend some time with him and tell him that you've missed him the past few days. Listen to what he says. Like I said, it might not be anything more than him being really busy.
2006-10-23 03:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till he made the first move. If you continue calling, he could see that as annoying and bugging him because he is busy or he says he is - he may just need a break right now? So calm down and don't do any more calling. The ball is in his court now.
By giving him room, he may wonder what's up. Give him the space he may need right now? Not saying that to be mean, just want you to take it easy.
2006-10-23 03:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some confidence in yourself and stand up for yourself. I can't tell how old you are but you sound quite young. You're letting a relationship define who you are, I hope you can see that. Please concentrate on you for awhile and not him or "being in a relationship."
Since I know nothing about either one of you, I can't tell if you've got a good relationship or a superficial one but it sounds like he's backing off. If so, let him go. Be proud. You'll meet someone who is a better match for you.
2006-10-23 03:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by lazykins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that the guy is a jerk with no balls to tell you himself that he is ditching you...I have seen this lots and the phone thing, out with nobody knows who-where thing and then busy yet MOM says "I don't know"..open your eyes and ears and listen to what the opposition is telling you in a round about way they are letting you know he is lying to you..BUSY my ***. Friday night out with who? and nobody knows where he is until next day OK-------- DUH !!!! drop the jerk and go find a real man for yourself...I am sure that lot's of nice guys are around still and if not then write to me as I am sure I would be available for you...HE-HE.
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2016-10-16 07:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do a suprise visit to his house, and tell him whats his problem? he could be cheating on you or doing something behind your back if he isnt calling as often or always so busy with his sisters baby and his das rusty pipes.
2006-10-23 03:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go to his house tonight. And you should also ask him why he hasnt been calling you as much as he use to.
2006-10-23 02:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHOA! Slow down there....you're starting to sound like a stalker,,,WAIT for him to call you and come over...STOP calling him SOOO much and going over there...WHEN he comes to you IF he does...then ask him nicely...?
2006-10-23 03:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋