Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

I have had my problems solved here regarding my love affair with a friend. Trying to make it work with my husband has been very stressful but yet i cannot bear to live him because of my children. I don't want to lose them to my husband but if i were to ask for a divorce and fight for custody, i know i am not ableto give them the lifestyle they should have and the best of education. My husband can. On top of that, I am missing my lover so much.What do i do? Shouldi stay or go? My husband doesn't seem to care anymore.

2006-10-23 00:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by angelheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my girlfriend for four years, I love her I do, but we've drifted apart to the point were I dont know were our future is going, Ive tried to mend things and get her to address our problems but she seems happy to go on the way things are. A few months ago I meet a girl and Ive fallen for her, we have so much in common and I know we would make each other happy, but Im still so confused, I want to be happy again with my girl but I dont know if we ever really will be again....and if I let this girl go I could be losing so much.... What should I do??
Only real answers please

2006-10-23 00:04:33 · 16 answers · asked by i_alone_me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy chases you when your in a long term relationship and he knows this, what does this mean?is he genuinely interested?
Ive just come out of a long term relationship and this guy was chasing me even tho he knew i was with someone. he is still chasing me now ive ended my relationship. Is he genuine or is it all about the chase?

2006-10-23 00:03:03 · 14 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

its my problem right now.. can't choose.

2006-10-23 00:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 21 years, she has become less into sex as far as her involvement, hygene, weight and attitude. I have tried everything under the sun to get her to give sex some effort. She demands that I be attracted while giving me the worst of her (on purpose). It has been with a great sense of loss but I have given up on sex. I don't need it anymore and don't even like it. It in't fulfilling or pleasurable the way she does it. So how do I get her to expect the results of her actions. Example... If I don't pay my mortgage the bank will take the house. If she doesn't try to do anything to arrouse me, then why can't she just accept that I am not into sex anymore. I could be, but I can have a raging woody and when she comes near... bye-bye... she is such a turn off... and let me preempt your 'talk about it' comments. I have read every book, been to professional counselors and tried litterally hundreds of ways of presenting this to her. She gets pissed and says, "Jills husband doesnt need that!"

2006-10-23 00:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was on top and he was sitting and when i went through and placed my ****** to his ******my legs felt a little numb after a while and i felt like keeping my legs tightened to him and i was like electrified(not literally),,,, it was my first time and i was straddling him and it was like, i needed that feeling all night, there was pain to you know but is it normal to feel very weak at such intercourse, and i was moaning a little too... is it natural?

2006-10-23 00:00:44 · 15 answers · asked by Betthany G 1 in Singles & Dating