its my problem right now.. can't choose.
2006-10-23 00:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You let this guy be there for you so either you love him or your using him. either way you should get this dream guy out fo your head if your with the loyal one. A good man is hard to find. Don't mess it up.
2006-10-23 00:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who's always there for you. That shows how much he cares about you. I think we all have dream guys, but usually that's all they are. In reality they're so much different than we dream, but we stay there because we've convinced ourselves it's a dream come true. And, I think if you asked, that maybe this guy isn't so dreamy, or you would have jumped at the chance no questions asked. :) I was blessed by the fact my dream guy is also the one who's always there for me, the one who's been my best friend since the day we met. Give this guy who's there for you a little time, and I'm sure you'll see he's more of what you've always wanted than the other guy. Best wishes!
2006-10-23 07:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dream boys are meant for.. dreams. in reality, there is no such thing as the perfect guy, right guy or dream guy. we must love a person for his/her strengths and weaknesses, greatness and flaws, his/her character. in life, we can never find someone who is perfect nor right for us. but we can always find someone who inspite of their imperfections, and ours, always tries their best to be there for us and give us exactly what we want and need. so with regards your question, you should really go for someone who is there for you always, no matter what the consequences are or what the risks involved. because dreamboys, they can satisfy our physical interests but cannot hold our hearts, the superficial aspect will only suffice for only a short time. but the whole emotional, mental and spiritual connection, that is very rare. i suggest that if you find someone who can satisfy the latter, you should never let him/her go. because if you go for the dreamboy when you already have a man/woman of substance, is a great, great loss and pathetic mistake.
2006-10-23 07:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreamboys are fantasies and should be kept that way. Choose the guy that's always there for you he must care to be there.
2006-10-23 07:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by wildspirit27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to decide ? You will probably choose the dream boy, but learn from your mistake and hope that '' old faithful '' is still interested. Been there and done that from both sides. I have left perfect girls to chase dreams, only to be hurt. I also have been that guy, there thru thick and thin, only to be tossed aside for the '' dream boy ''. It hurt me both ways, whether I was doing the '' tossing aside to chase a dream '' or being tossed aside. Bottom line that I learned, It is really hard to toss the dream and stick with the constant. You will always wonder what could have been.
2006-10-23 07:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by randband4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for dreamboy, have the guy who's always there for you as a friend. try and make it so your dreamboy is always there for you.
2006-10-23 07:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it never be easy to choose the guy of your dream and the guy who's always there for you...you might choose the guy of your dream but he might not be the one for you so take your time and think careful
2006-10-23 07:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i would choose the 2nd one... but this is a BIG issue. Dun just take the ans that majority wins, ask ur heart this question.
2006-10-23 07:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Nutzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them.
If you are not sure, then it meens you have interest in both. I would never want to be with a woman who had any type of interest in someone else.
2006-10-23 07:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married a guy of my dreams, and he's always there for me.
you should get a guy like that.
2006-10-23 07:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋