is jelousy in a relationship a good thing?
2006-10-23 02:53:48 · 26 answers · asked by megan c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a little jealousy can be real cute and show the other that you care...
but most of the time it can get frustrating after a while, I guess...
2006-10-23 02:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, think of this, do you think jealousy is a good thing? You already know the answer to tis question. Your heart and just basic gut instinct will tell you. If you must know because tou are blinded by love, the answer is Absolutley not. It just lets the boyfriend or girlfriend know that this is there way of controlling you. And believe me, fromexpierience, it just gets worse if you stick with it. So you need to put your foot down before it gets too deep.Tell him If You Love me and I love you, there is nothing to be jealous of, but you make things unhappy for both if you continue this, then thats where problems begin.
2006-10-23 10:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by starie eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no as trust is the most important thing in a relationship but jelousy shows that the other party do care for you :)
2006-10-23 09:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by penny_172 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In moderation. Jealousy keeps you and him both knowing that you are still wanted in the relationship. But too much jealousy leads to fighting and controlling behavior. And a controlling relationship is a doomed and unhealthy relationship.
2006-10-23 09:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My ex-bf broke up with me cuz, he almost cheated on me but, he decided not 2 & I got really jealous got he was still talking 2 the chick, but, not in a romantic way. And people have 2 understand there's trust, but, u just don't want things 2 happen cuz, u have low self esteem.
2006-10-23 09:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by lakersfan_4life1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy would be alright because it can be a sign of caring. However, if it gets to the point where he is asking who you talked to everytime the phone rang, and stuff like that, it wont be good.
2006-10-23 10:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Xander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Extreme jealousy is never a good thing. But, a little "protective" jealousy is cute, I think. I'm flattered when my husband gets a little jealous.
2006-10-23 09:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. it is a good thing thing to some extent.
but definately not when there is too much of it..
it is best to know the reason and try to clear everything out by simply a talk..
2006-10-23 10:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by aks that is me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree a little bit is good. However, this is in an instance where a little bit of something can go along way.
2006-10-23 09:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not rly if he's jelous or ur jelous that is deffinally not a good thing cuz then there will be competion for the other person and it will tear you guys apart and you won't be able to trust each other
2006-10-23 09:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋