I have a new boyfriend and I like him but I'm a realist and I don't love him. He has been hinting on wanting to mess around and have sex. I kinda want to but...I have my doubts and worries. Is it wrong? to have sex with someone you don't love?
2006-10-23 02:35:07 · 27 answers · asked by grace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it when you think that you can rely in him
2006-10-23 02:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well of course it is always your decision however I think that is part of what is wrong with today's society. They place no value on anything. Not love, sex, or marriage.. It's wrong to have sex outside of marriage according the Bible. Another thing how are you suppose to build a good foundation with someone with sex in the way.. When you bring sex into the picture, emotions and logic get all screwed up and without a good foundation the relationship won't last
2006-10-23 09:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with having sex with someone you don't love, people do it all the time. But, if you have doubts and worries, then simply don't do it. It's obvious you want sex to be more meaningful.
2006-10-23 09:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend probably need to slow down. Having sex is a big decision. If you aren't in love you defanatly shouldnt do it. Having sex is giving your body to someone, and you wanna make sure that you give it to someone you love and trust with your whole heart. So think about it, be careful your body is your temple. It is your choice if you are right or wrong. Good Luck
2006-10-23 09:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by caligurrl3634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess that depends on maturity, morals, and yourself.
If you're doubting it, you probably shouldn't do it until you are sure. This is an answer you won't get from yahoo....you have to find it yourself.
And its ok to have sex with someone you don't love, but you have to realize thats all that it is, just sex. Do you want that, or are you looking for more? These are the kind of things you have to ask yourself.
2006-10-23 09:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To have sex with someone you don't love is to gain experience. To have confidence in you and be contend with being naked. Many of us are not happy with the way we look. But if you don't love him it is better to let him know first. It sounds like he wants more fun from you than love. If it is a moral issue, I think you should'nt if you're going to feel disgusted and guilty after sex.
2006-10-23 09:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not put out real soon, you are going to find yourself alone, ony attractive to the religious freaks and pencil d1cks who post on here. If you are concerend, do Anal sex first and Oral to completion that way you are still technically a Virgin whilst still being considered a worthwhile date xx
2006-10-23 09:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what ever u r thinking is totaly wrong .if u have a bf ok but keep up to a limit(only talking).but not sex this is utter waste that can be done with your husband . if u dont love him leave ok wheather you think that my message is waste than u can do anyting u want
2006-10-23 09:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by amu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people isolate sex and love... and they are happy about it... some people think good sex can only work with deep love... whatever u do... u should know that YOU have to live with the consequences...so ask urself what you want and what u feel.... nobody else can give u an advise on that....
2006-10-23 09:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by explosivegrey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess the bottom line depends on your own personal morals. Do you respect yourself enough NOT to have sex with just anyone? Do you respect him enough to be honest and not lead him on? Answer those and you can figure out where you are in life.
2006-10-23 09:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by razzyrascal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have to ask this question your probably too young and/or immature to be having sex in the first place. try slamming his cock in a car door, he won't hassle you for sex anymore. and you, put the hose to your head so u can rinse out the blond, and think for yourself!!
2006-10-23 09:41:26 · answer #11 · answered by turtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋