2 of my closest friends are having a dipute. How can I make sure that I don't make a judgement on who is right or wrong before I have all the facts on what has actually happened?
2006-10-23 02:14:03 · 7 answers · asked by vicki h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DON'T GET INVOLVED. Tell them they will have to work it out without you and you are not willing to risk your relationship with either of them because they are having an arguement. You are not their mommy, it's not your job to make any judgements, facts or no.
2006-10-23 02:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, stay out of it. Even though they are both your friends, it isn't your problem. If one or both of them asks you to choose a side, then gently tell them that you aren't going to since you like them both equally.
Once you've heard what each one has to say, you can make a decision, but I wouldn't act on it. A dispute between two friends shouldn't ruin your friendship with either of them.
2006-10-23 09:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to decide who is right or wrong. Don't get involved. Listen to them and be there for them when you need them, but don't try to decide who is right or wrong or take a side.
2006-10-23 09:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the facts before deciding
2006-10-23 09:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from both of them for a while
2006-10-23 09:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take sides with them first = have a neutral relationship with them first
2006-10-23 09:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved at all--that's their business, let them handle it.
2006-10-23 09:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by BK1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋