I love my fiance very much and I enjoy spending time with him but whenever Im over at his house all he does is play World of warcraft for hours apon hours!!! I always leave at 10:00 to go home and get in bed so I can get up for class so and 9:00 he stops playing his game long enough to have sex with me and then as soon as i leave hes playing again? Help me world of warcraft is ruining my relatiomship?
2006-10-23 02:17:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My hubby playes that game as well. In the beginning I was soo pissed at how he would play and play and play. i finally just sat down and told him how I felt. he ended up really listening to me and set aside time to spend with me.
LOL, now I actually play the game as well. Its kinda fun and I see now why it takes so much time. We play together which is pretty cool. But to this day we still set aside time offline to spend time together.
2006-10-24 07:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being a hardcore video gamer myself i see it differently then some of the comments from above. One thing you don't want to do if you love him is give him an ultimatum. Relationships should never come down to you choose this or that or else. The best way to handle this is to communicate your feelings to him. If you like video games perhaps ask him if you can join him. Its a great way for you two to bond and gives you a common interest. But if video games isnt your thing, then you really need to sit down with him and discuss your feelings an suggest some kind of schedule with him. If he isnt willing to come to some kind of agreement or isnt sticking to his agreement then you should not marry him. Now if he is missing work or the game is conflicting or damaging his life then he should see a doctor, because he might be suffering from depression.
2006-10-26 22:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by dachet74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a man
Shallow and unimaginitive - taking you out to see the real plans would make him less shallow computer games rot their brains -
Give him an altimatum - Quality time with me or I go - I'm marrying you not the computer game...
you have your whole life with him - and the playstation - you should be his number one play station..
2006-10-23 02:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u sure he loves u..i mean...no offense..and he may..love u..but...to be in love with someone and still not pay attn to them...sounds to me like he using u for sex..and trust me..even if u think he'll grow out of this lil phase..he wont...and more games will just pile on...these games ruin alot of peoples relationships..u just need to give him an ultimatum...u or the game...and not just for a week or two to make u happy...tell him that his future with u depends on this..and if he really loves u and wants to be with u then...he'll give it a rest....an hour or 2 a day isnt bad..or when ur not there...but..not constantly and just stopping to do u..thats ridiculous....
2006-10-23 02:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by lucky_sweet_cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and tell him that you think that his game,e is interfering in your relationship. Tell him you don't care if he plays but you would like for him to put you first and not the game. If he still refuses to listen dump him now before you get married otherwise he will do that your entire married life.
2006-10-23 02:21:34 · answer #5 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's choosing the game over you then you shouldn't marry him. He's obviously not mature enough for that type of commitment other than with his games.
2006-10-23 03:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband was like that when we dated. was like that and still is like that after we married. Let's just say it got real old real quick. No spark left.
Tell him that it's ok to have hobbies but to chill a bit. If he wishes to have you he must make you want to be with him. If not, move on. Run while you can. Wish I did
2006-10-23 02:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did with my fiance... JOIN HIM! (and don't give him sex when he plays too much)
2006-10-26 11:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just young and immature.
2006-10-23 02:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋