I was with my girlfriend the other night and we were messing around in bed. Anyway, she asked exactly how long my penis is and I said around or just over 6 inches. Then she pulls out a tape measure and starts measuring...! We've been having structural work on the house being done so it was just lying around.
She measured from the tip to the abdomen on the top and it came to 5,1 inches. I was horrified - I had always measured underneath, so it looked bigger. She took some more measurements from me sat, lead down and standing and to my horror it went below 5 inches when I was lead down and sat. So now I have massive complex about this and I haven't thought about anything else for days.
I've figured the best thing is for me to accept myself, so give me your honest opinions: would you consider that big enough for you (4.7 to 5.1 inches)?
I'm 23 and me and my girlfriend have been together for 4-5months. Before that, my experience was pretty limited.
2006-10-23 02:01:23 · 38 answers · asked by Stomach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please try and answer my question as it would effect the way I approach girls in future.
2006-10-23 02:07:05 · update #1
You don't understand what her friends are like. I was a fool to allow her to do it. I'm fearing it will spread among her friends and suddenly people will be making comments. Its just a matter of time before they know. Probably the next time she gets drunk...
2006-10-23 02:12:58 · update #2
chill out over this - and moral of the story - dont brag about your equipment as it WILL come back to haunt you!
Look hun - ok so you havent got the biggest penis in the world - but so long as you know how to use it and how to satisfy your girlfriend then that should be good enough.
If she does go telling her mates about the size of it - just laugh it off - be like yeah jeez can you image what shed do if it was any bigger - she goes mad for it as it is now.
At the end of the day - your penis size isnt the hot focal talking point - trust me! xx
2006-10-23 02:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you're having work done, it's probably not a good idea to keep a tape measure in the bedroom!
You could get one of those 'fishermans' measures - They make everything look twice the size!
Anyway - It's not the length that matters.... it's the girth!
I wouldn't worry though - You've been together 5 months.... you must be doing something right
2006-10-23 02:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Kazbaz ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask myself why did she do this, as most men have a complex about the length and width of their penis's. It seems to me that previous to this you was happy with what you have so what has really changed except that she was inconsiderate towards your feelings. Size is not really the issue here but whether your girlfriend is content with you or not. I believe that you should sit your girlfriend down and have a very long talk about where this relationship is going if anywhere. Be pleased that you found out what type of person she is before the relationship goes to far and be happy with the size of your penis as it is the average size of a mans penis. Good luck
2006-10-23 02:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by christine w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to worry about!!Thats a perfectly average size!!And to be honest im sure that there are very very few girls that would actually measure it any way!!I certinaly have never measured a mans penis and i dont no of any other girl who does either so your girlfriend is probably the only one girl that you will ever sleep with that will actually feel the need to measure it!!If she makes you feel bad about it i suggest you get rid of her!! x
2006-10-23 02:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think you need to worry that much!! if you two have been together for 4-5 months then she had no problem with it before so why should she have a problem with it now?? there is nothing to be ashamed of!! you need to quit worrying about that stupid problem because i promise in the next few months that will be the leat of your problems when you hit the 6-8 months in a relationship.
2006-10-23 02:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SO WHAT. As long as you are (or were) happy with it and she is - what's the problem. Do men compare with each other? Will anyone else ever know the size? Are you worried she's going to tell people. If you're happy together don't worry - I've NEVER thought of measuring my husband. I like what he does with it - and would whatever the size.
2006-10-23 02:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow dude you need to chill you have been together for 4-5 months you must be doing something right thay say its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean.
and if you measure a cats tail from its bottom if you do the same for yourself it will put a smile back on you face.
2006-10-23 02:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rizzo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude. I think it's a misconception that women care more about the size of the penis than what it can do. Don't over analyze it, ok? Truthfully, I have never measure a penis, so I don't know. My ex was really, really small (I'm not trying to bash him), but he was able to work it very well. I was very satisfied... and I'm a VERY sexual person. Size is overrated. Really. I'm sure you're great.
2006-10-23 02:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by monie0078 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for a start when you measure you are supposed to measure from underneath, so it is longer then you think. besides is she compaining? my man is 6 inches underneath and i am perfectly happy! it is silly to say size doesnt matter as it does, but there is more to life than to worry about such things. the average vagina is only 6 inches deep anyway. as they say there is no point having a limo if you have no garage to park it in! stop worrying
2006-10-23 03:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by RIA O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! If it's been making her happy, then 5 inches is wonderful. BTW you do realize tat you were probably shrinking under stress. Next time don't let a woman take a ruler to your penis. That's one of those things that she just doesn't need to know.
2006-10-23 02:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by ladytaurus83 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋