My guy has a friend who has a gf, and we have been out on double dates. However, I am not comfortable being around the gf at all and don't really like her. I have been going to these double dates out of courtesy but I would like to start turning it down. Can anyone give me any ideas on how to turn it down without my guy and them knowing I don't like them.
2006-10-23 00:31:21 · 7 answers · asked by teddytrin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He doesn't have many friends who are attached and he has expressed to me that he likes the idea of double dating with friends.
2006-10-23 02:46:11 · update #1
It sounds as if you are afraid of taking the risk of telling your boyfriend. Are you afraid that he'll interpret it as a rejection of him? You don't have to worry about it. Simply confide in him and tell him that you don't enjoy her company and would prefer not to double date with them. If you are still uncomfortable about telling your boyfriend, simply tell him (the next time this comes up) that you are busy and won't be available to go out. After a few "I'm busy" excuses, your boyfriend will figure it out.
2006-10-23 00:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, be patient may-by they will break up! however, in the meantime you organize the evenings and try to find out things, places etc.. that she does not enjoy and may.be you won't have to double date that often.
Try to find another couple that will come along with you and your boyfriend.
2006-10-23 07:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by marque1717 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you refuse to go out with the couple the more there gonna feel that you don't like them. I don't think theres any other way to get out of it without just telling them your not interested.
Why don't you just try and get along with the girl. She can't be all that bad
2006-10-23 07:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not be honest with your BF? He may think that you DO like this other female....you are not obligated to double date...
2006-10-23 07:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ure bf how you feel about this girl i'm sure he'd rather know than make you feel uncomfortable every time you go out.
2006-10-23 07:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by wildspirit27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no! Once you start doing things you really don't want to it can make you very unhappy. Be brave and if it upsets your guy friend then --is he really worth having.
2006-10-23 07:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by snowflake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant just turn them down,may u can do it once but not always..how many excuses can u find?better tell ur boyfriend and come to a solution...
2006-10-23 07:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by archie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋