i am a recently married girl, during intercourse i make some noise(moaning) which irritates my husband and he want me to keep silence,i am controling but still its happening, is it wrong to moan? does every woman do like that if so why?
2006-10-23 00:14:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, honey, it's not wrong to make noise. Moaning and making noise are a way of showing our enjoyment. Does your husband make noise? If so, ask him why it should be ok for him to, but not you. Ask him why it irritates him. Not every woman moans, but that's their decision to make. I know that I can't help myself when I do it. If I need to be quiet, my other half usually has to kiss me to keep me from getting to loud. You can keep trying not to make noise, but please, think about this. If you can't be free to be yourself in bed, what other areas of your life do you need to try and be someone else in?
2006-10-23 00:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all do some kind of noise during love making. At times a moan can mean the pleasure you're feeling and at times it can be a moan reacting to penetration.
If you're husband is the type that likes to have intercourse in total silence than he is the one with a problem.
Maybe instead of moaning you tell him, oh yes, I like it or no move here, there, touch me here...Guide him maybe he'll appreciate that more.
Again you know your husband talk to him.
Good luck
2006-10-23 07:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by uma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is frankly, nuts. For you to lay there in silence is wrong. Noise should be a sign that he is pleasing you. Apparently your pleasure is not his concern.
A man should take his pleasure from knowing that his partner is pleased. I am gratified when my wife does not moan but screams. It is perfectly normal and desirable to make noise.
Quiet is for prostitutes and whores who have no emotional investment and for which sex is a job with no pleasure.
He is so off base. Point this out. Maybe he has watched too much porn without the sound on because they sure are loud. In fact in most porn films the women fake the moaning.
2006-10-23 07:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with moaning. If you are enjoying yourself express it. If your husband is embarrassed by the sounds, it sounds like he has a problem and you need to talk about it. Maybe as a boy he heard his mother moaning when she was making love with a man (his Dad). I think it's a turn on and it just gets me more excited. You should talk to your hubby about it. Communicate now or you'll have major marital problems down the road.
2006-10-23 07:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is making you feel good then moan away. Most men like to know they are pleasing their woman and hereing them moan adds more to the excitement
2006-10-23 07:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not wrong. It is natural to moan when tou have sexual pleasure. You should talk to your husband and maybe he should look for professional help to find what is wrong with him! I am not sure if every woman do moan but I do and my husband loves it!!!
2006-10-23 10:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Amélie Lapaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is OK. Moaning is good. It feels good to you and so you do it. Why did he not know of this before you got married? I suppose you waited until marriage to have sex? Good luck.
Suppressing the moans will just limit your pleasure.
2006-10-23 07:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your husband expect you to be - a robot, moan as much as you like, if I were you I'd be moaning about this sexually cold man !
2006-10-23 08:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly normal to moan yell scream in delight at the husbands love making, it might be a personal preference for him, sometimes it is good not to make a noise as it heightens the sensation when your reach orgasim
2006-10-23 07:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, it's not wrong to moan, most girls moan because it feels good, it's natural. but if your husband doesnt like you moaning you can tell him to get ear plugs.
2006-10-23 07:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋