My mom seem to like my sister more than me she buys her stuf and her kids she has a really good paying job and i work and make 6.00 pr. hr. i moved out and trying to live their and take care of my son. and before i moived out my sister would leave her kids their with my mom and grandma and she went out drinking and i had to beg for them the watch my son so i could take a shower and i just turn 21 and i haven't been able to go out for my brithday but she can go out and drink all the time, my mom just lovers her kids and gets them everthing my son hardly has any clothes cuz my sister take all of them and my clothes too and my boyfriend too and give it to her kids and her boyfriend and mine she keeps for her self and when i say something to them they say i am a big baby and i will fale in life and my mom wondres why i am takeing meds for depresion. what do you think?
2006-10-23 00:27:53 · 8 answers · asked by ASHLEY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think what you might want to do is become more self-sufficient. Your mother sounds very "enmeshed" with your sister to your detriment. Instead of being "triangulated" in this ongoing family drama, you might want to try getting re-trained for a better paying job so that you don't have to depend on your mother. Your local labor dept. has career counselors who can help you for free. Because you suffer from depression, you would qualify for free job training under the Division of Vocational Rehabilitation Act. You could perhaps attend college, or get a certificate at a local Vo-Tech school in something more lucrative than a minimum wage job. You need to "row" out of this dysfunctional world you're in..
2006-10-23 00:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another place to live. You also can get government financial help if you ask. Your family is toxic and I don't think you and you son should be around people like that. You and your son are being treated very unfairly and you and he do not deserve that. Good luck
2006-10-23 07:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously you love youre mother heaps or you wouldnt be asking this question but i personally dont think that a mother can love one child more than the other because she gave birth to you both therfore knows that you are both eqaul in life and im sure ya mom would say the same thing to you(IF YA THAT WORRIED ABOUT IT THAN JUST ASK YA MUM)
2006-10-23 08:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you aren't going to fail in life and you aren't being a baby or whatever they say. We have feelings coz they mean something to us and no feeling is stupid or pathetic and no one should make you feel small for it. I don't really know how to help but don't let them make you feel small because you have feelings.
xXx take care and good luck xXx
2006-10-23 07:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your sister is your mother,s only daughter. this sometimes happens to sons and daughters alike. you will never understand it or be able to explane it to yourselforanyone else
2006-10-23 07:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by houdini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i fully understand and the answer is YES, she does like your sister more. my mom does the same to me.
2006-10-23 09:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cause your mother thinks you are more mature and take care of everything.
2006-10-23 08:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
evry sis have got the same problem so dont worry its natural
2006-10-23 07:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋