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Long story short my boyfriend (well know ex boyfriend) cheated on me, I just came from his house and his roomate let me in not knowing if he was there or not so I go in his room and hes in there asleep with some girl and then the girls sister was asleep ont he couch in his room.

He got mad cause he got caught and didnt apologize or nothin. Well I had a bag of his clothes in my car that I had got from the cleaners, would I be wrong if I fuked up all his clothes and tore them up and returned them or should I just be the bigger person and tell him he needs to come and get his shitt from out of my car.

I am so hurt cause I still love him and I know that he still loves me but he feels like Im gonna cheat on him cause his ex-wife cheated on him 2 years ago. That doesnt justify him doing wrong by me but should I just mess all his stuff up or be mature and tell him to come get it. Please help cause I am still broken hearted

2006-10-23 23:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

12 answers

I walked in on my first wife and a neighbor. I was back from a job early. I was armed. I didn't shoot anyone. Some folks said they were very proud of me for not killing them. In reality I decided they weren't worth the price of the ammunition.

This guy isn't worth the match it would take to burn the clothes. Just walk away clean.

2006-10-24 00:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0 0

Don't mess up his clothes, be the bigger person. I know you are hurting and want to get back at him, but living well is the best revenge possible. And don't take him back. Just mourn the loss of this relationship and move on. I'm sorry that happened, you deserve better!

2006-10-24 06:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0 0

Be the bigger person. There are too many good guys out there to be saddled with a cheater. The best thing to do is forget him and find someone you can trust and depend on. If he cheated once, he'll do it again. Good luck

2006-10-24 06:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Cal 5 · 0 0

Just put his clothes on the porch and leave him. Don't look back. He's clearly not worth it. Don't stoop to his level. It's always nice for a person to know that they behaved well. You'll feel proud of yourself. So don't go for the instant gratification as tempting as that might be.

2006-10-24 07:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 0 0

He hurt you...you dont need to be a big person, and he certainly doesnt deserve it.

Rip up the clothes! Burn them if you have to. If he asks, tell him you gave them away to homeless people.

He doesnt deserve anything from you, he was a d*ickhead, and he needs to know it.

xx

2006-10-24 06:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by JOANNABANANA ♥ 2 · 0 0

forgive him and return his shirt.. send it by mail or something.. and there is no need why you should feel guilty when he is the one cheating on you!!!confront hi9m on what happened.. if he doesnt own up.. well walk out on him.. even though it might be painful.. it will save you much heartbreak in the future

2006-10-24 06:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by The phoenix 3 · 0 0

You should just dump the bag in his front yard or in the street in front of his house, screw that. Anyone who cheats deserves it, you should definatly move on find someone who deserves you becasue he doesnt.

2006-10-24 06:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by peaches22191 2 · 0 0

He is a jerk. don;t even call him to come and get it. Let him be the one to call. don't mess any of it up. he could sue you if you did and you dont need that trouble.

2006-10-24 06:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0 0

I WOULD HIRE SOME ONE TO BEAT HIS ASSS AND THEN BURN THE CLOES ON HIS FRONT LAWN

2006-10-24 06:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by nitroboy640 2 · 0 0

You know what you should do - follow your conscience! (and well done :o))

2006-10-24 06:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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