Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

2006-10-23 19:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by GoateeBoy 3 in Family

all they have done is messed up my life , should I be a cold hearted mo fro instead , sometimes i wish I could be .

2006-10-23 19:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by heyboo134@yahoo.com 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im so over going out and noone ever approaching me. Im easily 6'2-3 with heels, not ugly or fat. I have curves (T and A, to break it down for those of you who thinks Curvy is fat) What gives? I refuse to starve myself so I can be asked out. And I dont really see myself shrinking anytime soon. And, I dont want to hear that Im "intimidating" and all that crap. And YES, I like taller guys, like 6'3 and up. I dont want to look like Tom Cruise and Katie....

2006-10-23 19:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by dconkle_ny 1 in Singles & Dating

explain clearly

2006-10-23 19:07:50 · 17 answers · asked by Manou 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So here is me= I like this guy a lot. (Not experienced with relationships.

So here is him= Is kinda "getting over" his ex, they just broke up.

I like him, a lot.
Some other girls do.

I want to talk to him on the phone and computer and stuff, but I dont want to seem desperate.

Opinions please?

2006-10-23 19:07:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was involved with someone for 2 years. He broke it off and 3 months later started dating someone, just once a week, who likes lots of space in a relationship. He says he has to try to make it work. And he is ok with seeing her once a week. We were thinking of getting married. He cries when we talk about our relationship. He says he let me go b/c he couldn't give me what i needed in the long run but wanted to stay with me.

2006-10-23 19:07:43 · 7 answers · asked by Sexy Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

see, one guy is there and he admitted that he loves me but one or twice i told him no. than he attempt sucicide but he surivied? bcz of that he wont do in future again the same i thought that meanwhile i say him yes and when time comes i will tell him no. now i told him not to continue the relationship as i dont want to marry him. so now he is telling that he will tell about our relationship to my dad and will come home. so i am worried. if he will really comes and will tell than. as i am soon going to get married and he tells that he will even spoil my married life also. he tells that now at any cost i wont you. but i dont love him at all. and i dont want to marry him? Plz help me

2006-10-23 19:06:35 · 17 answers · asked by blooming_ruby11 1 in Weddings

i used to say hello, but it started to sound pretty stupid. so i say "yea"? to mostly everyone when they call me on my cellular phone or home phone. i also say "hey" or "wasup" to my friends when they call. if it is someone i dont know or dont know the number on my caller id, i say "who's this"? is it rude for me to do all this? or is it normal? and why do people say "hello" i just dont understand it, its sounds retarded.

2006-10-23 19:06:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 19:03:06 · 14 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Friends

2006-10-23 19:01:58 · 11 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Friends

2006-10-23 19:00:55 · 7 answers · asked by amal 2 in Friends

My husband and I have a hot tub and we enjoy it together and with our family and neighbors. I have been in it with close girl friends of mine alone to relax without kids and my husband has gone in with his best friend alone for the same reason. No one said a word about me, but a lot of people have teased them about them being in there together. Now his friend won't get in the tub at all, even with other people in with them. I find it strange that a hot tub is viewed differently, considering you could sit closer to someone on a couch, or at a table and chairs for that matter, and no one will say a word...but enter water into the picture and people make it a sexual thing? I was just curious as to how many people consider a hot tub to be more intimate of a situation than the common urinal? Men and womens opinions both welcome.

2006-10-23 19:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by Jen B 3 in Friends

Men are generally selfish in making love even with their wives, because the wife always take the "pill" where many side effects will come in and you can see how danger it affect the health of your wife. I don't know whether they really love or treasure their wife at their expense of their sexual pleasure.

2006-10-23 18:59:59 · 17 answers · asked by James Louis 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl insists, but the guy tells her to wait until marriage. Is this a positive sign or negative? How does a girl evaluate this?

2006-10-23 18:56:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were not stable in your career, did not know where your life going and had no place of your own to live, would you get married?
some say, that marriage will force people to try harder in their career, get some kind of direction/purpose in life and bring stability or is it the case that you should have these first before thinking about marriage?

2006-10-23 18:51:11 · 30 answers · asked by Mark n 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would that be smart to start having feelings for someone that you haven't met yet and you dont know in person. I had all bad experiences before with the girls I met online, but with this one something since to be special...

2006-10-23 18:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by melbin b 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont say perfect or flawless or any other crap like that.

2006-10-23 18:47:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-23 18:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I found a baby sitter for my 5mth and 3year old at this lady house, But they don't really do any activites there, they just sit around and watch T.V. I need some good advice from mothers with small kids.

2006-10-23 18:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Friends

I met a girl at school, dated her for the past year. She moved to Chicago for me, and now we live together. It's my apartment, but she lives here and pays half the rent (I could not afford it on my own). She's great, we get along well, but I feel like I'm missing out on something.

I started dating another girl the same time I met the girl I'm with now, and nothing came of it, other than a good friendship. I think I'm in love with her, or maybe I'm just infatuated, but I cannot stop thinking about the other girl and how I should be with her, even though she currently lives out of state.

I think I'm just not ready to be serious, but now I feel like I'm stuck in a relationship and living situation that probably isn't the right one. Even though my girlfriend treats me amazing and there are no problems, I cannot get over the other girl.

Help! What should I do?

2006-10-23 18:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is killing myself the only answer

2006-10-23 18:43:23 · 34 answers · asked by im a princess! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex was cheating on me and is pregnant by another guy. as normal im extrememly mad and upset. but on the other hand, i think i still love her. we was together for a long time and we had plans to get married, have kids etc. we used to be real real close. we had something special. is it normal for me to still have these feelings for her? and i dont think finding another woman is the answer. i believe in loyalty and being faithful. even when its hard to.
i may have to find another woman in the future, but i dont think it will feel the same as it did with my ex. i dont even feel the same about the love thing anymore. is all this normal? or do i just need time to get over all of this. plus my other problem is i cant seem to stop thinking about the fact that she's pregnant and her having the baby and me not being there and it not being mine. how can you get over a thing like this.?

2006-10-23 18:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by jordan h 1 in Singles & Dating

he tells me he loves me, he makes me happy, makes me feel good about myself, we want to go out when where older so its more serious!

2006-10-23 18:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've seen women who did, but I couldn't figure out why. People told me they did it for money, but I still believe in love and attraction. What's the attraction of a way older man? Have you experienced this? If you haven't, would you?

2006-10-23 18:39:47 · 27 answers · asked by girliegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so you start dating someone new. So then why do you bring your new girl to the place where you met, hung out with, and where she still hangs out with her group of friends?? I mean....if you wanted to move on wouldn't you bring her somewhere else where you two can hang out without the ex there?? And why do you and your new girl both stare and don't even seem to be having any fun?? Why do you do this?? This is confusing to all involved, so whats going on in that head of yours??

2006-10-23 18:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love to dance. It is a great stress reliever. Whenever I go to parties, i always dance with other men. Its back to my boyfriend and we have an arguement. i told him I would pg13 my dancing, but he just doesnt want me to dance with other people. If I go home him and never cheat. i dont see the problem.

2006-10-23 18:39:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I been having lots of trouble with my husband, he's been very controling and demanding. we have a babygirl that she is turning 1 in one week, but since sept 3 , i left my husband because i couldn't stay with him because the abuse, so i left him , and now i'm staying with my parents with my kids. The thing after i left him he went to filed divorce, I didn't know intil i got served, so now i'm going thru courts stuff and is making nervous because all the violence, people are telling me he might get share custody with me. and i don't agree because he NEVER taking care of his daughter during the marriage i felt i was a single mother because he wasnt there for me. all he did was abuse me alot, i do have a attorny they say they going to help me fight this case, but i'm still worried. I went to mentation today and well things didn't go good, he wants share custody and the menditor did tell him, to start off with visitation to get into PARENTING CLASSES he disagree.

2006-10-23 18:39:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 18:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Started chatting with a guy online. He says he definately wants to get to know me better but has not asked to meet up or exchange numbers. He hinted he would meet up with me if I asked to go for coffee. (but he didn't directly ask)... so I did. We exchanged numbers and would try and meet up soon. How long should I wait for a call to meet up????

2006-10-23 18:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 7years old at frist we thought he just did it cause he was playing and didn't wont to go but, he has been on this med for a month and half and it still isn't working. I am worried cause he smell bad after a few hours of play and there is no infection he has been checked and it is strong. He drinks lots of water everyday and no soda just kool-aid and milk but, he would rather water all the time and juice sometimes. I need advise and spanking is not the answer He really can't help it.

2006-10-23 18:35:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family