Men are generally selfish in making love even with their wives, because the wife always take the "pill" where many side effects will come in and you can see how danger it affect the health of your wife. I don't know whether they really love or treasure their wife at their expense of their sexual pleasure.
2006-10-23 18:59:59 · 17 answers · asked by James Louis 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had a husband like that once. I became deathly ill while taking the pill to the point of having pre-cancerous cells on my cervix. I was at the doctor's office at least once a month with something new going on. Nobody could figure out what was wrong with me but I felt in my heart it was the pill. I stopped taking the pill and my symptoms stopped almost immediately. I became healthy again. He kept pressuring me and pressuring me to get back on the pill again. I decided to change husbands instead of changing my birth control. Hubby #2 doesn't mind the condoms at all.
2006-10-23 19:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will come a time when both guy and the girl are selfish about sex! Not a long time!
Birth control that doesn't have to be applied during that "special moment" is good for both people.
Generally, oral birth control is better at preventing un-wanted pregnancy than the best condoms!.
It should be discussed weather the side effects of the "pill" are worth any benefits!
I'm sure both will share in the sexual pleasure.
If not then you should have another talk with the guy!
2006-10-24 02:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the pill has been around and tested so much that it is virtually harmless. Of course there are some side effects, but those come from eating meat, standing to close to the microwave, the air that we breathe. The pill is an easy way to make sure you dont get pregnant. It is 99.4% effective when taken correctly. Condoms have the same effectiveness when used correctly, but the majority or people dont use them correctly. Condoms are less pleasurable for men during sex, but I would never not reccomend them. I would guess that would be his reason. I would suggest talking to a doctor about the pill---its really not a big deal.
2006-10-24 02:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by jenmimo7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To some men, wearing a condom will affect their "performance". Thus they request their wife to take the pill. Some may have difficulties like allergy to rubber.
I understand that there will be certain side-effects to any medications taken orally. However, most of the side-effects are not permanent.
It is good that some couples are taking birth control precautions. However, the decision of either "pill" or "condom" should be a mutual agreement.
Cheers..
2006-10-25 01:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by moonchild1808 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bcoz that is an easy solution. Moreover, pills can be taken after intercouse, while condom is needed b4 that. Also some times you get aroused, then start a ride and the condom may not be available 'at hand' reach or you cant put that quickly,as you know that there are certain moments when logically you should pullout but you push more inside instead of pulling that out. Usage of pills is to cover these situations. Well if you plan to have sex then condom must be used instead of pill.
2006-10-24 02:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women enjoy sex more without condoms. Men are not being selfish because both sexes prefer their sex skin to skin. The pill also have side effects. If a man is true to his wife and has sex with no one else, there is no chance of STD by going without a condom.
2006-10-24 02:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by A Tennant's Mother 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because condoms fail. You are safer using the pill...you'll have less of a chance of being pregnant. My wife had NO side effects. You should consult your doctor if you have any questions...you know...instead of jumping to conclusions
2006-10-24 02:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by paintball814 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The pill AND a condom should be used!! So there is compromise both ways!!
It takes 2 to tango so they should both put in the safety work too!!
2006-10-24 02:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because the condom limits the ability to feel pleasure from a woman's vagina.
2006-10-24 02:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms kills the sperm and the sex/love life too.
Is too many choices to get the right pills, for any individual women.
2006-10-24 02:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋