I ma 12 1/2 years old and im pregnant. I also may have an STD..... what do i do?

Question

Is killing myself the only answer

Answer 1

You have access to a puter can read and write. And have managed to get yourself pg'ed, diseased, and you're twelve years old. Don't believe you.

Answer 2

NO. It isn't the answer.
You are now responsible for the baby growing inside you.
No matter what anybody else says or thinks, that baby is an innocent, who had absolutely no say in being conceived.
To kill yourself may seem like the easy option, but it is a very cowardly way to solve your problem.
Talk to a doctor ar health professional on your options. Get a test to see if you really have an STD.
The best thing you can do for yourself and your baby is to challenge this problem and overcome it in the most positive way you can.
You are not alone in your situation. Do not do anything rash. You must become mature enough to face the situation and tell your parents about your problem.
You owe it to yourself and your baby.

Answer 3

Well first of all killing yourself is not the answer. Im 14 and I had my baby when i was 13. At first, I thought my life was over. But i was wrong and so are you. You need to tell your parents and I know its hard and you'll feel their dissapointment but they'll accept your mistake and love you anyway. Then you need to go see a doctor and know for sure if you have an STD or not. Having that baby will make your life complete and your whole worl will change the moment you hold it. By the way, where's the father at? If you want to talk you can e-mail me at [e-mail]. I know how you feel and it helps to talk. I hope you make the right choice for you and your baby.

Answer 4

FIrst of all remember that what is happening to you right now is not the sum total of your life even though it may seem that way. If you live to be 100 and this is the worse thing that ever happens to you, then you would have had a great life.

So take a deep breath and decided who is the best adult you can confide in. Unfortunately waiting is not an option and when you live out your entire life you will wonder how you ever thought suicide was an option.

Answer 5

NO!! NO!!! that is not the answer .first I might ask have you told your parents and the young man that help got this child if you was not raped.this is very young to be having a baby,you are still a baby yourself however you need to go to the clinic or health department for medical attention for yourself so the baby can be healthy.there are a few free clinics.call 2 rivers and ask to speak to a counselor to help talk about the thought of killing yourself.

Answer 6

My GOD sweetie, PLEASE don't even consider suicide! I don't know how your parents are but if you really feel like you absolutely can't tell them, then please go to planned parenthood. It's absolutely confidential and they will take good care of you. They will help you decide what you really want and what's best for you and for your baby. I am not a big fan of abortion, but in your case, being so very young it could be dangerous for you to carry and give birth to a child, but only a doctor can tell you for sure. But, honey, if you decide that you really want this baby to come into the world, then think of his or her future when you tell your parents. If you don't want to do it alone I'm sure that the folks at planned parenthood would be more than happy to help.
I don't know you darlin' but I love you all the same. I know how it is to be young and confused and to make mistakes and not know how to deal with them. I got married when I turned 16. I'm not overly religious or anything, but I want you to know that I'm praying for you and hoping for your health and safety.

Answer 7

You can't go through this alone. You need someone who will be a support system for you. If you can't go to your parents, please please go to a school counselor or teacher. Someone need to help you get the medi-cal attention both you and your baby need. This is not the end of the world. It will be tough but you can definetely get through it. You just need to be strong, brush yourself off, realize that whats happened has already happened and you need to go forward, and do the right thing for both your own health and your babys too. And you need to confide in someone. There are many, many programs out there for people in your situation. Contact your local human services department to inquire. Good luck, and I wish you only the best.

Answer 8

Contact Planned Parenthood immediately and tell your parents if you can. If you can't, you should be able to receive confidential services at your local clinic. If you want to keep the baby, you will have to tell your parents. Killing yourself is never the answer, believe me, your parents would much rather deal with your baby than your death. Please know that we are here for you - you can contact me directly if you'd like...no judgment, just listening and maybe a little guidance if I can.

Answer 9

You have options. Suidcide is a cowards way out. You thought you were mature enough to have unprotected sex, you now have mature responsibilites. Does the father know? He's going to have to play an important part in this. There are a lot of things you can do. Abortion, adoption etc.

Answer 10

sounds like you have low self esteem if your letting a guy get away with giving you an STD, get some help. and no, killing yourself is NOT the answer

Answer 11

at 12 and a half keep those legs closed. you are too young to be pregnant, let alone having sex. and if you have an STD you need to get medical help. tell your parents the truth dont "forget" who had sex with you when you tell them. this moron who knocked you up needs to be held responsible as well.