If a girl insists, but the guy tells her to wait until marriage. Is this a positive sign or negative? How does a girl evaluate this?
2006-10-23 18:56:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Virgin of course.
2006-10-23 19:05:37 · update #1
Is he a virgin!?
If so respect his decision!!
He is respecting ur body by waiting until ur married!! So respecxt him
2006-10-23 18:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Positive
2006-10-24 02:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different opinions, some girls will find it attractive and more romantic, but some will be "omg what if he's bad in bed " cause a bad sex life ruins relationships, I've seen it happen.
It's really up to the guy and who he's looking for.
2006-10-24 02:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i would take that as a positive sign because his (still being a "virgin" i asume) not wanting to have a physical relationship before marrage shows that he has values and morales and really wants to be in total love and deeply committed to the girl he is with.........! i too feel like this as i'm a virigin in my early 30's and have held onto it for the reasons i mentioned above wanting to be totally in love and committed to the guy that i fianlly give my virginity too...... i know this is old fashioned but i'm glad that there are guys out there who feel this way too....... and if the girl can't respect the guys wishes then maybe she is not the right girl for him..........
2006-10-24 02:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say negative....only because compatability between two married (or not) people isn't just emotional and psychological...you have to have sexual compatability. If you don't have sex until AFTER you're married and find out you love everything about that person except having sex with them, where does that leave you? Unsatisfied. And unhappiness in the bedroom spills over into the rest of the house.
2006-10-24 02:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by chnchita 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a guy wants to wait until marriage that's fine for him. Some girls will respect it others wont, everyone is different, just find a girl who will respect his decision as he would for her if it was her choice.
2006-10-24 02:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, i would be very grateful to such man who will wait for the right time, say wait till marriage come..though we all know that the generation now with respect to such relationship is already open for such idea...PMS....but i think there is no problem about that, its not because he's a gay or whatever...but for me....its a total respect for his girl that he's doing that...and it could be also that the man is raised from a very conservative family....
2006-10-24 02:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by ziledz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I would have a hard time with this. I don't base my current relationship on sex but I found that we connect on an intimate level. sounds corny but it is true. I guess it depends on the person. Is he a virgin? Did he give you a reason why he wants to wait?
2006-10-24 02:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by twogris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men like that are hard to find and should be cherished. If a girl doesnt respect his decision it means she doesnt respect him, not that he isnt interested in her body. Why does sex have to be interpreted as showing or proving something to your partner? That shouldnt be.
2006-10-24 02:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This a positive sign. We need more men like that.
2006-10-24 02:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by triniqueen40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if the guy says no,then the gal is going to respect him n if the guy gives in then the gal will never respect him because all guys want nowadays is booty.
2006-10-24 02:11:51 · answer #11 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋