I've seen women who did, but I couldn't figure out why. People told me they did it for money, but I still believe in love and attraction. What's the attraction of a way older man? Have you experienced this? If you haven't, would you?
2006-10-23 18:39:47 · 27 answers · asked by girliegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband is 24, almost 25yrs older then me. we have been married almost 6 yrs. (i think, lol) and TRUST ME its not allllll about the money. I love that he has been there and done that... I have learned soooooo much from him... outside of the bed room. Inside the bedroom (the first few yrs;newlywed years) is soooo fun. But I married my hubby for his laugh, and his personality.... he is the type of person that every one loves... or wants to know. But there are a few problems with this BEEN THERE DONE THAT attitude.... I am still at the age where I want to go out, and get loud and talk shi@, he wants to stay home after 10. We have 2 children together, I had 2 children from a prev. marriage, I am the stay at home parent and he works 12-13 hr days..... Needless to say, no matter the age difference, or whatever other differences that married people have... we alllllll have the same challenges.... Marriage is hard work..... LOVE EACH OTHER get through them... Learn from them, and be happy. FYI, older guys ARE hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 19:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by TamBam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could desire to be many motives, the main obtrusive one being that he needs a mature lady. i'm no longer asserting that sixteen-18 year olds are no longer mature, yet a 30 year previous lady has greater journey in existence and is a lot greater able to finding after a relatives,quite a relatives with toddlers. i do no longer think of a youngster might want to marry a fifty 4 year previous guy and alter right into a step-mom to toddlers who're in all risk older than her. Lol. nicely besides, as long as your dad marries a woman he likes for her character and piety, and not basically seems, and the female likes him the two then it quite is all sturdy. It does no longer be honest on him if a youthful lady married him for his money etc. desire it helped.
2016-10-16 08:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I believe in dating whomever you are attracted to, but 30 yrs is pushin it. My bf is 8yrs older then I am, but we still have alot in common. It never seems like he's that old, and I never seem like I'm that young when we are together. I think once you get around 13 yr differenc that you begin to get into 2 different walks of life. I think the main reason women go after older men is because of experience and the fact that they are settled down more then guys their own age. I'm 20 yrs old and really I'm not trying to sound like an old prude, but I don't really go for guys my age. I find them to be too immature and annoying. My bf has a steady job, has a future, and well is more trustworthy then guys my age. I'm not saying all guys my age are worthless, but a lot are. I think the woman who married someone that old did have a love and an attraction, just not the kind you are thinking about.
2006-10-23 18:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by hockpa04 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He'd be 77years old. Nope. I dont think so. But there are probably lots of women who marry an older man simply for the money, some for love. You cant help who you fall in love with always. It either comes at ya gradually or knocks ya upside the head! ;)
2006-10-23 19:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what you have in common, communication, similar points on life, trust and knowledge,respect each other - enjoy the time being together. Not only money - is just destination.
But more sense can be like 20 years older max., not 30.
2006-10-23 18:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 30 years is too much. my husband is 13 years older, i find it too much too. but i can tell u why i fall for older guy - he is handsome,looks much younger his age, he has excellent education, he is so well managed and in such a control of his emotions, he already made a brilliant career - he is on the top of bank management, which makes me so proud of him (and me, that he even dignified me with his attention one day and left his first wife for me). and of course, the last but not least - money. so he is one hot pacjakge. and did i mentioned that he is very well endowed? the only bad thing in older guys -. they don't have this level of energy. so he can't jump all night in a night club drinking alchohol, then come home, have sex the rest of the night and look fresh in the morning. so if a woman is much younger maybe she can get bored and tired of coping with that. i know i already started. but taking into consideration all pros and cons i say - older guy is better. if i ever leave that one i will find an older guy anyway
2006-10-23 18:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not 30 years older......yikes!!!! When I was 18 I experienced a relationship with a 28 year old. That was ok...but never any older...plus he had a young spirit....and I enjoyed my time with him.
I broke it off because I knew he would be 30 before me!!! lol! He was sad but understood I had a life to live that he had already had ahead of me.
Never marry for money.
love, light n laugher!
Harriett Potty
2006-10-23 18:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by harriettpotty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my father was 27 years older than my mom...he wasnt rich but im sure swept her off her naive little feet. Older men are so much more knowledgable than the women that are interested in them, that its really the women being manipulated. My parents were only married 8 years...father-daughter relationships arent healthy.
2006-10-23 18:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by jenmimo7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girlie:
Nope way 30 years? oh my God! not even ten years older! Its just nasty! older men are more experienced!and thats bad for a young gal, Love plays such a great part in relationships with old men I feel they got nothing to offer except nasty money!
SANAM
2006-10-23 19:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not love because ladies are smart. when the person's 30 years old, the lady is just born. when the person was 20, the lady wasn't even thought of until ten years later.
haha that's hillarious.
2006-10-23 18:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋