Started chatting with a guy online. He says he definately wants to get to know me better but has not asked to meet up or exchange numbers. He hinted he would meet up with me if I asked to go for coffee. (but he didn't directly ask)... so I did. We exchanged numbers and would try and meet up soon. How long should I wait for a call to meet up????
2006-10-23 18:36:03 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have exchanged pictures and chatted about 6 times online.
2006-10-23 18:43:13 · update #1
Jeeze be careful and if hes going to call it will probably be soon but, please at least meet like you said for coffee and all in a public place at least till you get to know him better ok?
2006-10-23 18:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not long at all because If he was interested when he gave you the number ,the date and time could have been set then.be careful some are serious in the chat and others got game ,looking for a like the Weaver.when you meet make sure you are out around lots of peoples
2006-10-23 18:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ethel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he call you gurl ...
Then, if he does call, make sure you both talk on the phone more than once before deciding to go on a first date. You usually can tell whether the person is worth the first date effort, if y' know what I mean? Sometime what happens online ... doesn't predict how he'll behave on the phone. So make sure you talk to him first on the phone, see how you guys communicate ... it's ok to have pauses and feel weird at first. But, usually you can tell whether he's going to be a fun date or not ...
Give it a try, who knows?
Remember, always have first date in a public place!
Good luck
2006-10-23 18:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not call him up again. Its now up to him to decide if he really wants to meet you. If he does not make a move, you can assume that he's not as serious as you are. Maybe he's married of engaged or something. In that case, don't waste more of your time or energy on him. Move on and try to find someone else.
2006-10-23 18:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the girl who said
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Are you stupid??!! Maybe that guy is an f-ing 60 year old man trying to get on your pants! If you want a guy to get to know you better, make sure it's one that you've actually seen..you know, with both eyes? "
if ur 1 of those ppl who already meets ppl without knowin them in real life then bring tons of friends!!!!!
but i say dont ever meet in real life listen 2 what the girl said!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 18:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no offense yet that dont take place if u choose exciting no strings linked u gets a attractiveness as a slag... nd boys will think of you're undemanding nd merely take great factor approximately you nd u will finally end up harm.
2016-12-28 03:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid??!! Maybe that guy is an f-ing 60 year old man trying to get on your pants! If you want a guy to get to know you better, make sure it's one that you've actually seen..you know, with both eyes?
2006-10-23 18:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to get toghether to "get to know" someone better? Why can't ya'll talk on the phone for a while? You never know just who you will meet.
2006-10-23 18:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about a day or when you exchanged the numbers
strike while the iron is hot
2006-10-23 18:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid of the on line cyberspace communication.. What if he is a crazed lunatic or worse off a monster??
2006-10-23 18:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋