you know the ones that don't try and get their leg over first, and don't cheat and just treat girls how they should be?
if so...where the heck are they?! lol!!
2006-10-23 23:56:07 · 45 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, pick me pick me!!!
Sorry about that, on a more serious note yes nice men do exist, But where are all the nice women, the non-self obsesed, non stuck up, non money grabbing ones.
I seem to only be able to find the above !
2006-10-23 23:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they do. Of course in a typical 'Hollywood' film they are almost always gay....
But try this, No man is 100 percent perfect. So find the one that is 90 percent perfect and 10 percent imperfection that you can live with.
And, do not always go by how they look. Never marry a man for his looks or his money. Trust me, he can loose both of those attributes very quickly.
Try meeting his parents to see what you will have in 20-30 years. I will be 50 next year and I am really upset about how much I act like my mum&dad!
Then go on a holiday together to a foriegn country with a rental car or public transportation. If you survice that without tears or the police, he could be the one.
Finally when it is getting serious and you have seen him in the morning picking something and itching that, go shopping for furniture - whatever you happen to need for the flat. If you can agree on that then the chances are you have a nice guy at 90 percent.
Anyway, good luck and remember to smile while kissing the frogs because your Mr. Nice Guy might be the next one you kiss.
2006-10-24 00:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by dbdoit 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a way of whittling the good from the bad. The way to do it is to watch and learn from what they do and what they say. See men will jump you as soon as, because they must think that you are pretty hot stuff. So just don't let them. Let them show you that it is you that they are interested in and not just your body. Instead of always being available and keen, just stand back a bit and allow them to be men. Men love to chase women, its comes from way back in history.. its inbuilt in their make up. They are the hunters and we have to allow them this privilege. See if you make it too easy for them, they will just loose interest and go seek another. So practise a little elusiveness, hold back, don't call him, let him call you. Let him ask you out, let him date you and let him take you home at night and leave with a gentle peck on the cheek... he will be going wild for more.. trust me!
2006-10-24 01:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they exist. They are out there wondering where the heck all the nice women are. lol.
2006-10-24 00:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate cheating,and as much as i love sex,i can wait,i don't think it's so much fun if one of the couple is felling pressurised.I also treat women with respect,though i do expect the same in return,it's only fair!
2006-10-24 04:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by duracell18 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
,they do exist you have to put a stop to there horrible ways as soon as Someone treats you bad finish with them eventually you will meet a nice, one only you decide how you want to be treated, like a dog or a princess, go for the princess every time...
2006-10-24 00:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by twinsters 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do but girls dont want them. I'm 27 and never had a girlfriend in my life cos i've been told by all girls i'm too nice. I dont cheat, dont swear, dont get drunk, i own a business, i'm fit. I'm everything a girl could ever want but then i get accused of being boring.
So to answer your question, they do exist but nobody wants them
2006-10-24 00:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by The Shadow 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
We do exisit, but believe it or not we have the same problem as you seem to be having. I have been told before that I am too nice - just because I'm polite and like to treat a woman as she should be.
Good luck in your search
2006-10-24 00:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by pete_ramsden 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of nice guys out there. I've dated a couple. You just have to know where to look, and that's generally right in front of you. Got any good guy friends? Yeah, right there.
2006-10-23 23:59:48 · answer #9 · answered by random6x7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've got myself one.
The key is to be friends first that way you'll know what their like before you start a relationship.
I meet my fella at uni i moved into the same student digs and we hit it off. Plus i got to know all of his bad habits first. (there aren't many) ;-)
We're still together three years later and happier than ever.
2006-10-24 00:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋